NEGATIVE HEALING

Good day and I hope you are having a great day. This week again I have a video blog for you.  This week we are going to discuss how sometimes the use of "negativity" and specifically talking and voicing negativity is actually good... enjoy and don't forget to leave me comments on my Facebook Page and follow and comment on my Twitter account.

In this video I talk about "what you resist persists". I put a post on that subject that you can go to by clicking on the blue link.

I also referred to Emotional Freedom Technique. If you Google it there are over 300,000 references but here is the top one http://www.emofree.com/eft-tutorial/tapping-basics/how-to-do-eft.html

Enjoy the video :  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sr4jS5I6IGQ

BURNED OUT???

Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This week I have a video blog for you to discuss the topic of getting Burned out.  Keep in mind that you can get burned out even though you may be doing things that are positive. This is the topic I am going to delve into in the video. Enjoy it and make sure you comment on my Facebook page and follow me on Twitter and send me tweets. Till next week to your success.

WHY IS IT SO HARD? WHY DOES IT TAKE TIME?

Good day and I hope you are having a great week. Instant gratification.  It is the craze of our generation.  For some reason somewhere between my parents’ generation and mine, the concept of delayed gratification turned into instant gratification, and I am only 43.  The technological advances that Gen-X and beyond were blessed to have has indoctrinated a sense of “I want it yesterday” mentality. While that is great for services and conveniences that we enjoy, there may be some things that are worth  the effort and waiting. This is the topic of this week’s blog post and I will wrap it all around the concept of The Law of Attraction (LOA). 

Let me begin by saying that even The All Mighty creator took time, (7 days) to make the cosmos, so why are we feeling entitled to have it now? OK, that may be a circular argument, but let’s dig deep.  When it comes to getting things that really matter, and last, very few life forms on this earth including humans, get it immediately.  It takes time to grow in strength and mental or instinctual prowess.  Humans do not start running right out of the womb.  Mastering a skill set takes time if you want to be really good at it.   Fostering relationships takes time if it is going to be a meaningful one. Everywhere you look, there is this concept of time delay, and effort involved with making something that is truly “good” and “desirable”. 

This concept is built into the process of attaining what we want in our physical world though the use of The Law of Attraction (LOA).  We DON’T get what we visualize immediately.  Frequently there is a process of fine tuning if you will, of what we desire, and there are steps that open doors to us to go through before we get closer and closer to what we want until finally we get it. All this is set into motion to make sure what we are desiring is in fact exactly what we want and also to help us GROW to be able to handle what we are visualizing or craving.  Let’s be clear, the time lag is not for being ‘DESERVING’ of what we want,  but for become big enough to handle what we are craving.  When things we desire are not bigger than us, vibrationally speaking, then they materialize relatively quickly. Take for example a parking spot, or a cup of coffee.  When things that are desired are vibrationally at a higher level, like wanting $1 million dollars when you make $50k, then it takes maturity to be able to handle that desire and that takes time and yes, some effort.

Imagine if you had never lifted weights and started at the gym wanting to bench press 2 times your weight.  In most circumstances that would seem ludicrous right? You would in all likelihood fail and even hurt yourself.  You need to grow into achieving that effort.  Depending on your commitment the results may take a short time, or longer.  The same is true with skill sets. If someone gave me a piece of wood and told me make a desk out it, my creation would look like something kindergartners would put together, since I have not developed skills in the art of carpentry.  With practice however, I can learn to make a fine piece of furniture. 

Why is this the case?  That is a magical question.  Why does it take effort and time for us to get what we want?  I believe it has to do with the worth we give to things.  There is a joy that comes from the attainment of our desires and I believe that the enjoyment is directly proportional to the amount of effort it takes to achieve that.  If whatever we wanted was instantaneously ours, I believe the magic and joy would disappear.  If we did not have to put forth effort to get what we wanted there would not exist the same level of pleasure derived from it. Hence we would then loose our sense of desire and as deliberate creators, we then would cease to create. By extrapolation then if we stopped desiring then our universe would not grow. That is the science behind it. Our Universe is expanding, and we are a big part of that on a Quantum level.  Now I take this into the spiritual realm.  When Adam was in a place where he had everything, there was no need for anything else, and hence no Universe as we know it. His fall from grace is what initiated the whole Cosmos. Maybe I am reaching, but I am trying to make a point that there is a very clear set of processes that you have to go through to achieve EVERYTHING you can imagine.  It is simple but it is by no means EASY.  And it should not be easy because you would not gain the appreciation for it.  The LOA is a journey not an end point.  Enjoy the process as much as the fruits. 

I hope this makes sense to you and I really would like to open some discussion on the subject on the Facebook Page under this blogslink.  So comment, disagree, agree, add points, interact with me and don’t forget to follow me and comment on Twitterpage as well. Till next week, to your success.   

LOA WAY OF DEALING WITH PEOPLE

Good day and I hope you are having a great day.  This week I am going to discuss dealing with people.  As far as The Law of Attraction (LOA) goes dealing with people comes down to a simple formula which is by no means easy.  That formula is what Abraham-Hicks has been teaching since the beginning and is summed up in the statement “nothing is more important than you feeling good right now”. 

What is the greatest challenge when it comes to dealing with people seems to be that we usually think that people think the way we do.  That mentality leads to many misunderstanding and conflicts.  If you think about it, the science behind the principle has success built into it. If you are concentrating on feeling good now, you will attract more opportunities to feel good. The challenge is to stick to the principle when other people tend to enter your reality. We do happen to share this world with others. Since most of us are not 100 % concentrating on manifesting our reality, there will be times when other peoples “realities” or “default manifestations” encroach on ours.  For example as I am driving down the 15 Freeway and I am in my own groove, the traffic jam should not really affect me. I can use the time to do many things. I can do some positive imagery, I can do rampage of appreciation practice, I can do deep breathing, or any number of things that will help me enjoy the time I am spending on the Freeway, but what happens? I get tense, I start thinking what if I am late, which then brings in more opportunities for me to be late. I start looking for other lanes and get more frustrated when people cut in front of me or I cannot cut in front of them. All of this just starts to bring in the negativity that the bulk of the people on that freeway have been manifesting by default and now it has encroached on my reality. 

This  train of events is even more challenging when we are dealing with loved ones.  There is just something about our loved ones that have a way of knocking us off balance or keeping us centered.  That is why it is so important that your significant others, and your loves ones are on the same train of mind as you are when it comes to LOA. Because emotions are the key factor in the vibration we sent out and hence the manifestation we get back, dealing with loves ones tends to have a very rapid impact on the vibration we send out.  Dealing with loves ones always entails emotions.  That emotions has a tendency to very easily help us in “feeling good now” or just as easily knock us off target from “feeling good now”. 

This has been a constant challenge for me all my life, and the one thing that I have found to help me in this endeavor is SLOWING DOWN.  It is so important to not let the emotion continue to build up.  Because very quickly that will become a snowball that we cannot control and then we are off to a negative feedback loop.  The key is to recognize that when people are not seeing eye to eye with us, we need to slow down.  Slowing down can be accomplished as easily as concentrating on our breathing for a few minutes.  Removing ourselves from the situation if possible and return with a fresh perspective.  Doing whatever it takes to prevent the initial emotional urges to take control. Breathing and slowing down will give us a chance to take an inventory and see if “it feels good, or it feels bad”. That way if we are feeling bad we can immediately start to change that thought pattern and try to reach for something that feels just a little better.

Thinking of something that feels a little better will in turn bring us more opportunities to feel better, slowly we can bring ourselves out of the emotional hijack that usually takes over and sends us spiraling down.  I hope this makes sense to you. I look forwards to seeing what you think about this post. Please put comments on my Facebook page or send me tweets on my Twitter feed with comments or suggestions about this post.  As always share this with anyone who may benefit from this and till next week, to your success.