WHAT IF CHILDREN RULLED THE WORLD?

Good day and I hope you had a great week thus far. Today I pose the question not as an end all solution but to point out the characteristics that I had forgotten I had when it came to resolving conflicts.  What if children ruled the world? I do this in the hope that it benefits you the reader or at the very least will make you think the next time you are in a conflict. 

Let me start with a story. I was recently watching a pee wee football game. It was a very competitive and close game. Towards the end of the game, there was a flag thrown that many in the stands disagreed with and it ended up deciding the outcome of the game. Conflicts ensued, words were exchanged, lots of yelling and lots of shouting went on for another 30 to 45 minutes.

I am sure you can guess who was doing the yelling and shouting. Yup the parents on both sides.  Do you know what the kids were doing? For the first 5 minutes “players” (the kids) on both teams, were mesmerized by the actions of their parents.  Parents from both sides rushed the field and got in the faces of the referees.  Then something amazing happened.

Both teams sat down on the field, slowly took off their helmets and shoulder pads, and gathered together and started talking, and then soon started to play random games together, or talked about their school stuff. They completely tuned out their parents, and the results of the game. 

As an outsider who happened to walk up when the conflict happened I could not help be amused. The looks on the parents as they were going to their cars in the parking lot was stress, anger, concern.  The look on the kids’ faces before coming in contact with their parents were joy, laughter, and harmony. 

Somewhere between pee wee football, and perhaps late 9^th grade we lose the perspective of conflict resolution.  What is it that allows children to get upset one minute and go on playing the next minute? What an awesome skill to have.  Can you imagine a world where conflict was solved by 5-8 years old, and the rest of the world was run by adults?  A world where adults had no say in arguments? No say in who to go to war against? No say in whose ______ was better or worse? What an awesome world. 

I think the reason why children of that age have this ability to move on, is the fact that at that age they see the world as “all possible”.  If I can’t have it now, I can have it in a few seconds.  I may not even want it anymore.  There is no scarcity.  There is nothing more important than feeling good.  Does this sound familiar?

Children are natural teachers of the Universal Law of Attraction (LOA).  How awesome is that? Yet as a father I am constantly overriding their natural instinct to just feel good. How often could I just let them be happy? How often is it really necessary for me to intervene?   If I am honest with myself much less than I actually do interfere. This is a lesson for me to hold back and let my kids work it out for themselves, or to allow them an extra leeway here and there.  It also makes me want to learn to behave more like a child the next time an argument comes up and think to myself, will pursuing this argument make me happy? Is it really worthwhile to be unhappy and win the argument? You have to be the judge in your case. I hope this makes sense to you. As always please feel free to comment on my Facebook page and leave me tweets, and follow me on Twitter.  Till next week, to your success. 

UNIVERSAL LAWS JUST ARE…

Good day and I hope you are having a great day.  Today’s post is for all of you non-believers.  Today is for those who are frustrated.  Today is for those who just don’t listen.  I do not intend to make you believe. I do not want to tell you what to do. I will treat you as adults that I hope you are and simply lay out the facts and let you take action based on those facts remembering that no action is also a form of action.  You can keep on doing what you have always been doing, and you know where that will get you already, or you can take actions to have the life you always wanted. 

            There are certain Universal laws that govern our planet and our lives.  You don’t have to believe in them. In fact for many centuries people did not believe them. The fact that they did not believe them meant that they would suffer the consequences.  If you don’t believe that gravity is real, and you think you can fly, you will fall.  If you know the specifics of the law of gravity and choose to work within its parameters you can utilize it to fly without getting hurt. For example  the sort of knowledge I am talking about is as such: On earth the force of gravity is 9.8N/kg times the mass of the object. If you can overcome that force you can fly. Well that is not exactly true either... let me blow your mind about points of reference. See this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NblR01hHK6U

            The same applies to electricity.  If you don’t understand the rules that dictate how electricity works, and you touch a live wire, you will get electrocuted. It does not matter if you believe it or not.  Ignorance of the law in this case is definitely NOT BLISS.  If you know how the forces of electric current work, or you can seek the advice and expertise of an electrician however, you can have the convenience of warming up your food in a microwave, and have light to read by at night.  It has nothing to do with your belief. It has nothing to do with your stubbornness. It has nothing to do with persistence either.  You do the same thing you will get the same results. Get electrocuted if you touch the live wire with your bare hands if you have no knowledge of how electricity works.

            What makes The Law of Attraction different is that even though this law is as old as time, the bulk of humanity was not exposed to how it works for a long time, and only recently it has come to our attention.  Those who knew about it, either did not want to share the information or did not understand how they had use it to explain it.  There were many books written and hinted to how this works, but they were either too vague, or mystical and difficult to interpret.  We are so fortunate that in our time, now in 2015 there is so much information about how to use The Law of Attraction (LOA).  There are many teachers that have been working successfully with this law for many years, decade even.  There are also unfortunately many people who pose as such but do not convey the information needed. 

            This is the reason why this blog will always remain free. I only put here what I have been using successfully and the information that has worked for me.  I do not seek to convert you to my way of thinking. I really could not do that anyway.  I only care that you experience the same joy and success that I was faced with when I learned that something like this is out there that dictates how the Universe works. I was pissed at first that it took me so long to be exposed to it, but as we know being pissed is a very high energy vibration and will only bring me more opportunities to be pissed. So unless I wanted to keep on being pissed, I had to change the vibration to something like gratitude for having had the information presented to me. Gratitude for being open minded at the time to try to play and experiment with it. Gratitude to stick to it when things did not work, and investigate what was it that I was not doing properly, and making changes to fix those. 

            If you believe you can and if you believe you cannot you are right is what Henry Ford said.  Therein lies this Universal law in a nut shell.  History is full of incidences where people tried to tell the rest of the society how to use The LOA.  Some people picked up the hint and succeeded and others ignored it as a fad, or gibberish.  Well, that is where this will take us as well. You can take the hint and if you are new to LOA or are struggling with it, read the earlier blogs and work your way to here. Or you can be lazy, skeptical, or ignorant, and go about doing what you have been doing and … what expect a different result?

            I hope this post has stimulated your thought process. If you are a reader of this post and a student of LOA, I hope this has energized you to go deep to the basics and practice them over and over again. Don’t get complacent. These are great times for humanity regardless of what you see out in the so called “real world”.  The more people realize this the faster we can all have the world we “want to live in” because we have to share this planet with others.  We can each have what we want, but how cool and how much easier would it be if everyone practiced these principles? I can’t wait to see that. Comment on my Facebookpage, and send me Tweets on my Twitter feed. Till next week, to your success and happy holidays. 

BE BETTER

Good day and I hope you are having a great day. This week I am posting a video blog to bring your attention that negativity is not good no matter what you are trying to protect.  For my readers all over the world that are not aware of the negative social media coverage over what coffee companies cups mean what when it applies to the holidays, this is a wake up call for all of us not to get sucked into the negativity and enjoy the joy no matter what your beliefs happen to be.

I hope you enjoy this. Comment on my Facebook page and follow me on my Twitter account. 

Enjoy the video blog:

https://youtu.be/9KZm3Vvndp8

WHY DO WE YOU LOVE OUR NEGATIVITY?

Good day. I hope your week is going awesome.  This week’s post tackles negativity.  I am hoping that after you read this week’s post, you will think twice about feeling any kind of negative emotions.  But I also want you to realize this is a process.  You did not get to where you are in one day, and irradiating negativity will also not happen overnight, or after reading this post once.  I suggest you bookmark this post and come to it over and over, especially at times when you are feeling sad, critical of yourself, or feeling any negativity in general. 

When I ask why do we love our negativity, I mean that quiet literally.  We love negativity. By “we”  I include the general label of human kind.  If we did not love negativity why would we embrace it so much. Think about it.  There is absolutely no evidence that becoming angry, upset, self-critical, will have any kind of positive consequences in any situation.  On the contrary, as we have learned from The Law of Attraction (LOA), when you concentrating on negativity, you are only going to attract more and more opportunities to have negativity in your life which means that you are now in a negative feedback loop that just creates more “stuff” to deal with.  Even before LOA became main stream, there were examples of teachings that negativity will not work.  We hear it all the time, but we choose to ignore it.  So why do we get angry? Why do we get upset? Why do we criticize ourselves and others? Why do we get sad etc.? 

This is the question that I want you to ask yourself because if we are of average intelligence, and we know that negativity will not do anything to help our situation and in fact it will do the opposite, then we are either insane, or just plain stupid to react negatively to any situation. It is like knowing that something will make you sick, and eating it over and over again and getting sick and then doing it again.  I am including myself in that we.  What is the definition of insanity? It is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.  Does this sound like something an intelligent person would do? NO!!!!

I am trying to use reverse psychology here.  I am trying to stroke  my, and my reader’s ego here as a last resort.  After all I do not consider myself stupid or insane.  Therefore I am  not going to do stupid things like get angry at situations that have not gone my way.  The anger is not going to be productive so why would I waste my energy on it.  This is something I need to practice over and over. 

I urge you to stroke your own ego.  Make sure you understand that you are a perfect being created in the image of the Source with all of the Sources powers and glory.  So we should not be bringing ourselves down to the level of ignorant fools. No other being on this planet, with the exception of those in close proximity to humans, embraces negativity.  Simply because of the fact that every other being on this planet is driven by their instinct and does not have control of their thoughts, they act intelligently.  Ironic isn’t it?

The same control that gives us our power of thinking and manifesting is also giving us the handicap of reacting with negativity.  Use this lesson. Do not act ignorantly the next time something happens.  Do not reach for negativity as a tool of comfort. Step out of your comfort zone and do the right thing.  Anything would be better than reacting with negativity. 

Eckhart Tolle states that negativity is a “mind” process.  The mind is lazy in most instances.  It is the easy thing to reach for negativity.  Our society has programed us for it.  We get sympathy from it. Even though we know it will not get us anywhere we seem to stay grounded with the “rest” of the herd.  It is time to break out.  It is time to set an example that we can and are entitled to do better.  I don’t mean the lazy kind of entitlement. I mean the kind of knowing that we deserve only the best, because we are the best. ALL OF US.  No sense of competition. Have total acceptance of the situation, and do something about it, or leave it.  There is no need for negativity.  Accept, take action, or leave is what Eckhart Tolle teaches.  There is no need for getting angry, upset or any negative thought.

I hope this makes sense to you and if you have questions please do not hesitate to ask me questions on my Facebook Page or send me a tweet on my Twitter feed.  Till next week, to your success.  

GET YOUR OWN $#%^ TOGETHER AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT THEM

Good day and I hope you are having a great day.  This week I watched the 3^rd GOP debates. There are many more debates from both parties coming.  One of the things that really jumped out at me, and because of my training finally send warning bells all over, was the fact that everyone is so concerned about equality. Is that a bad thing? Well let’s think and talk about it a bit from the Stand point of The Law of Attraction (LOA) Shall we?

On the surface equality seems to be great right? Did you read my last week’s post on Communism and the LOA? If you did,  you will have an idea of where I am going with this.  Equality is great as long as you are not comparing yourself to others, or others to you.  Remember we get what we put our attention on. If you are wanting equality for all, and then concentrate on what people have and what others do not have, and build up your negative emotions about why things are the way they are and how unfair things are… WHAT ARE YOU ATTRACTING WITH ALL THESE EMOTIONS?

It would be great if you can put your emotion on how awesome and abundant the UNIVERSE is and how it is possible for all to have everything. But that is not what we are going to be bombarded with over the next year is it?  No absolutely not, because that does not get air time or sell adds.  You are going to hear all about how unfair it is that some small number or percentage of people make 98% of the income and all that crap.  So then you will concentrate on that. So what you give your energy to is then, getting more and more opportunities to see, YES SEE, a small number of people make 98% of the money.  Do you know why they make 98% of the money? Because they visualize and think about, and feel about making the 98% of the money and not on what you are doing or how much you are making. So learn.  It makes me sick and tired of hearing how unfair things are.  I hope you are starting to feel the same. Well you know what you have to do. WE CANNOT USE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION FOR OTHERS.  YOU CANNOT WISH TO TAKE AWAY from others.  That is negative energy and only will come back on you.  Plus when did we figure out that it was right to punish those who are successful by taking from them and giving to those who are not successful. How will that motivate people to actually succeed? In what reality does this actually work?  Perhaps you can enlighten me. I welcome any incidences of where taking from those who have and giving it to those who have not has had long term successful results. Perhaps we can analyze that.  I am not saying anything about POLICIES here. I DON’T CARE.  I am not going to waste my energy debating and worrying what Government policy will make things better for the top 1% or the bottom 1%. 

The reason why many people have a hard time using The Law of Attraction, especially in the West is this concept of Equality.  Forget about equality and concentrate on abundance. The reason I say this is because people are more concerned about what the other guy or their neighbor has, or is making, or whatever, than they are about their own abundance.  We are wondering why so and so has what kind of a car, or lives in how big of a house, instead of concentrating on our own cars, and our own houses.  We are more concerned about the top 1% not paying enough in taxes, instead of worrying about our own abundance and what we pay on our taxes.  I actually heard this on the debate. That oh let’s make the people who make millions pay more taxes so it will help the people who don’t make enough.  Dude why do you think the IRS code has over 4000 pages of policies that no one understand? So  now you have to hire someone who actually spends all their time studying this.  Guess what, only the people who have  lost of money will be able to afford that type of help so then they will find a way to take advantage of the system.   And I don’t mean that in a bad way. It is the way the system that tries to take away from successful people and give it to those who are not successful always ends up working. Look at history if you don’t believe me.  It is an argument as old as time. Whenever you try to take from the successful and give to those who do not have the behavior or mentality of success, you will just create more crap and in the end it always just goes back to the same.  Why? It IS THE LAW people.  It is not a Democrat or Republican law.  It IS A UNIVERSAL LAW.  Forget about the other guy’s stuff, and concentrate on your own life.  That is the only way you can make and manifest what YOU WANT. 

You can’t have it for somebody else.  You definitely cannot effect somebody else’s stuff.  So get over yourself and realize that the law of attraction only works for you. In fact if you are concentrating on how UNFAIR it is that the top 1% have more and pay less taxes than you, that is exactly what you are going to attract into your life.  More opportunities to feel bad about how the top 1% is paying less than you.  We are in an election year, with tons and tons of media on the subject.  All this attention to how others have and we do not will ONLY ATTRACT MORE OPPORTUNITIES FOR US TO HAVE this inequality.  PUT A STOP TO THIS.  Worry and visualize about your stuff and then only on the stuff YOU WANT. 

I hope this actually hit a point for you. I want to wake up the attention that we can manifest what we want regardless of who is in the White House. We can have prosperity regardless of what is going on in Greece or China, or where ever.  So be informed, watch debates if that is your thing. Definitely go out and vote, but do not concentrate on the negative and what you DO NOT WANT.  Because you will attract it. There is no negation when it comes to the LOA.

I hope this makes sense and I invite you to put your comments on my Facebook page and twitter feed.  To your success, till next week. 

BROKEN AS GOLD

Good day and I hope you are having a great week.  Eckhart Tolle in his book The Power of Now states that if we were in Heaven, we would say after a while, this is great, but.  This is something that makes us who we are.  We are constantly looking for the next desire, and that is a great thing.  It is not a bad thing.  This is a bountiful Universe and we should be looking for our hearts content.  What does this have to with brokenness?

There is a Japanese art called Kintsugi or Kintsukuroi that is the art of repairing broken ceramic and china by filling and sticking the pieces together with a resin which has gold dust in it.  The moral of the story being that what is broken is actually more beautiful than the original.  As we dare to go after our desires instead of sitting back, we risk being broken.  We risk, to gain. We go beyond what is comfortable to gain new successes.  We push our boundaries, to experience the new opportunities.  This risk will come with stumbles, setbacks,  and what many may call “failure”.  In reality though has there been anything that we have achieved without failing and trying again? Imagine if you had stopped trying to walk because you fell down the first time you tried.  Ridiculous right?

There is a great beauty and I would go as far as saying power to someone who perseveres in the face of setbacks and prevails.  Many coaches will say “ you are not beaten until you quit”. Motivational speakers are fond of saying “you are the only one who can stop you”.  These are not just tweetable quotes, although feel free to tweet them. 

Do not hide behind your mistakes. Do not run from failure. Why do we let our failures and stumbles define our actions? It is called Shame.  Shame is different from guilt.  Guilt is an action that you did that was wrong. Shame is an identity; you believe there is something wrong with you.  There could not be anything further from the truth.  You recall Thomas Edison tried and failed 10,000 times to perfect the light bulb.  Do you think he was ashamed after each try.  Oh sure people were readily available to ridicule him, but imagine if he had stopped trying to invent his inventions.  

Remember people are always ready to bring you down. It is not always from a place of malice, it can actually be from a place of love.  Loved ones fear for your wounds.  When you experience brokenness, it hurts those who love you as well and they want to protect you from experiencing scars. Or it maybe they have experienced some brokenness and have not persevered to overcome and have not reached their goals.  Since this is a point of pain for them they “think” they can save you from experiencing the same results.  Success is not something we can want for others. You have to want it.  If you want it enough you will achieve it.  If your desires change then you can move on. In either case the brokenness or scars have taught you a valuable lesson that more than likely you will use and benefit from in the future.

I hope this makes sense. Please feel free to comment and ask questions on my Facebook Page and do not forget to tweet me and follow me onTweeter.  Until next week, to your continued success.  

IS LOA THE NEW COMMUNISM

Good day and I hope you are having a wonderful week.  Why doesn’t the concept of communism work in reality? Doesn’t believing in no scarcity, and everyone prospering as The Law  of Attraction (LOA) teaches the same as communism? These are the topics I want to discuss this week in this post. I hope it will clarify what LOA is and more importantly what it is not. 

The simple answer to the question, is LOA the new communism is no.  In fact it is exactly because of this Universal law called The Law of Attraction that communism does not work in reality.  In theory communism would be a society that works to help everyone achieve a certain equality in every aspects of their lives.  The caveat is that some people are more ambitious in different categories of their lives and some people are just lazy and don’t want to do anything but want to have all the benefits of those who are working. Some people like to accumulate more money.  Some people like to give more love. Some people are more of an intellectual.  Because of LOA when you start gravitating and releasing the vibration that gets you in tune with what you want, there will always be different levels of success in different categories of life, and hence no matter how much a governing authority tries to push down those who are successful in an attempt  to raise those who are not successful, the Universals laws will counter act that, and result in the failure of the concept as we have seen throughout the history of the world.  This in turn will just feed fuel to the belief that something is wrong with this system and the by The Law of Attraction more opportunities will manifest to prove what a failure the system is. It is law. It has to be that way.  You cannot help those who are not successful by taking away from those who are successful.  It just does not work in reality.  It is a pipe dream and frankly it is not fair.

What makes LOA different from communism is that The Law of Attraction is not something that can be forced on a society or people.  As you have seen me write in this blog post you CANNOT want it for someone else.  LOA is a personal choice and in that respect it also requires 100% personal responsibility.   No blaming your parents, the government, the economy, the media, the rich, the poor or whatever the fill in the blank. The underlying concept of LOA and law of  prosperity is that, Source does nothing with scarcity. Which means that if you actually follow the principles of the LOA, prosperity is your results.  What these principles dictate is that competition comes from a place of scarcity.  Everyone can have everything they want as long as they match their vibration to it.  How do you go about matching your vibration to something you want? You visualize it. You become extremely clear on exactly what it is that you want and then as opportunities are opened for you by the Universe, you take action on those.  These seems very simple in principle, but because by our innate nature human beings tend to concentrate on negativity and human beings are lazy, it make the practice of this law difficult but not impossible.  

Stop trying to have what your neighbor has. Stop envying what others have in their relationships. Stop gossiping about where people go on their vacation or what they wear.  Be happy for people when you see them having what you want. Do you know why? Because when you envy, and gossip and are jealous you are sending the REQUEST to the UNIVERSE to bring you more and more opportunities to gossip, and envy and be jealous which does nothing to help you improve your situation.  When you are happy for people, guess what signal you are sending out? You are sending out the REQUEST to the UNIVERSE to bring you, yes, you got it, more opportunities to be happy which in turn means your situation has to have improved.   This is completely the opposite of take it from those who are happy and give it to those who are not to make them happy. What idiot came up with this stupid idea anyway.  I guess on paper it must have seemed great. NOT.

I am willing to bet in the next century, the LOA will be wide spread and routinely practiced.  It is exciting to see a new world where people are not trying to cheat each other out of a measly dollar.  It is exciting to see a future where animosity because so and so loved someone else is not an issue because everyone can attract the relationship that they desire.  We are not far from it.  As it is we are understanding why it is that some people are widely successful in their lives while others who seemingly should be successful are not. 

Let’s take money for example.  For the longest time it was believed that the higher you level of education, the more money you would make.  I am a great supporter of higher education so don’t mistake what I am trying to preach here, but there is a magic ceiling on top of that, and we notice people who are extremely successful in business usually come from very humble beginnings. The reason is that education is not everything.  As Napoleon Hill said, specialized knowledge is the cheapest form of commodity one can purchase.  If knowledge was power, then our academia would be the richest and most powerful segment of society.  Knowledge is great, but there is a behavior portion that comes with understanding how to use The Law of Attraction that will unleash the power within knowledge. 

Please start putting these concept into practice.  Start sharing your knowledge of the LOA with people because this is something that needs to be widespread.  This is something that needs to go viral.  The prosperity of our world depends on it. Even though we have come a long way from 2006 when the movie The Secret was released, there are so many misconception of what is and what is not considered The Law of Attraction.  Misconceptions turn people off and create stagnation in the propagation of this knowledge.  Spend time on this blog or others like it, and understand what exactly is the LOA. Understand how you can use it to your advantage, and then share those skills with others. 

I hope this post got you thinking. If you have any questions on this post please don’t forget to post it on our Facebook page or send me a tweet.  Until next week, as always to your success.