What Do YOU do when everything is at ROCK BOTTOM?

This is a continuation video discussion on my live FB looking now from the point of view of the person experiencing loss. Enjoy
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https://www.facebook.com/SuccessWithL.O.A/videos/1614568208614397/

FB live : what do you say to someone who has lost everything

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Good bye and The end of this blog... for now

Greetings and I hope you are having a great week. This week is my good bye to you. In 2010 I started this blog to help myself be positive. Over the years it developed into a Facebook Page, and a Twitter feed and I hope it helped some people in the course of it. Now it is time for me to leave it be...

I find myself more lost than ever recently. I am off centered and not so "loving".  The Law of attraction LOA is about love and in good conscious I cannot really preach what I am having the inability to do in my personal life. I just need to take some time and find out how to be happy again.  I need to "put some of the lessons, I teach into practice".  I need to find how to love again the genuine love that comes for all not just the people who are good to me or who I like.  I need to be "like the tree that gives shade to all not just the people who are good, and even to the person who is chopping it down..." as I heard in a parable.

I wish you all much love. I wish to be able to help you, but I feel the negative energy that is encompassing me will transfer to these words if I continue to "PRETEND".  Along the posts of these past 7 years you will find EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO MAKE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION (LOA) WORK FOR YOU.  It is my wish that these posts will find their way to you when and where you need it. I will leave this blog, the Facebook page and the twitter feed active, but I am cancelling all my workshops, personal coaching, and teachings until further notice.

I love you, I wish you the best, and request your prayers, and positive energy...

It has been an honor and pleasure to talk to you from the pages of this blog.  It has been a treasure meeting some of you, and talking with more on the phone, and on Q&A sessions.  You all have touched my life in so many positive ways.

I bid you farewell and I am confident that ALL WILL BE WELL.

THIS WEEK JUST BE

Good day and I hope you are having a great week. Sometimes we just need to slow down and just be. The Law of Attraction (LOA) is a powerful, precise, and non-judgmental force of the Universe. We control this force. We can manipulate this force. Or we can be ruled and manipulated by it.

The LOA does not take into account your secondary motives. It is precise, or as Forest Gump may have said “… it is what it does”.  So when you are going into overdrive, and everything is spinning out of control, you are not doing anything to help yourself. You will just attract more of the chaos and commotion. Sometimes that is good and makes you take action, at other times it is very destructive. Learn to differentiate the two and take a step back.

This week, for a day, or two or seven just let things happen and don’t make an impulse decision. Watch the situation and sleep on the decision and see how things turn out.  Let the Universe protect you without interfering.  You will be surprised.

That’s it for this week. The message is simple. There is no need to muddy the waters with jabber. If you have any questions leave me comments on my Facebook page or Tweet me on my twitter feed. Till next week, to your success. 

A RIPPLE IN THE POND

Good day and I hope you are having a great week. The Law of Attraction (LOA) is a powerful force for those individuals who are learning to use it, but what you may not know is that as you and I  go about using this force we are not only doing ourselves a service, but also helping the entire world. How is that you may ask? Well that is the topic of this week’s blog post.

The LOA works on vibrations as you well know if you have been reading this blog or information like it.   Vibrations of thought, and emotions may not be as visible as waves in the ocean, or ripples in a pond but they are just as real.  We are still learning how our thoughts manifest our reality. Even though this Universal law is as old as time, just like many of human achievements, we have to learn to work with it.  Gravity, lift and drag were also Universal laws, but it has been less than a century that humans have taken flight. As we grow and learn more and more about how this works, more and more valuable information allows us to understand the fact that as with anything LOA, the good only gets better.

The fact of the matter is that when you send out a vibration through your thought and even more so though your emotions, those vibrations have lasting ripple effect.  As you concentrate on the positive, you not only get back your positivity in manifestation of attracting more opportunity to be positive but that positive vibration is sent out through the Universe for all of humanity to share.  That is the reason why small groups of people meditating  for peace, have a positive impact in cities with population of millions. The vibrations have exponential growth as they move through the ether.  This means when you are sending out positive vibrations, you’re helping all humanity and also more importantly, you have to be aware of your negativity because that is also passed on through the ether.

Your vibrations expand, just like the ripples of a pebble in a pond expands.  They will continue to move through the ether long after you send out your vibration. This means your good vibes come back stronger to you, as well as being available for those who are open and on the same level to receiving it. Keep on being positive. Realize that you are going to get stronger positivity the longer you are positive, and the same also applies to your negativity.  Realize that negativity is all around you, therefore you need to actively feel yourself positivity.  Realize that you will be helping everyone in the world by being positive and you are hurting everyone in the world by being negative. 

I hope this makes sense to you. Feel free to share it, and ask questions on my Facebook, and Twitter feed and I will be happy to elaborate on it.  As always to your success, till next week. 

YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN

Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This week I was hurt, by the fact that a close friend of mine seemed to not want to hear me out.  I was dealing with allot of challenges in my life and could have really used the listening ear, but it became very clear, really fast that I was on my own. Then I thought about it from The Law of Attraction (LOA) point of view and it all made sense.

Let me break it down for you.  You see, we are all on our own. It is not a reflection on our relationships and it is certainly not personal.  It is absolutely normal and if you see the contrary, someone is trying to go against the laws of nature and eventually that will back fire. What I mean by all this? It is something like this.  When we feel like we are overwhelmed by challenges, the social creatures that we are, we want to share the pain. You don’t have to be a LOA guru to not want to hear the crap.  It is completely opposite of what your guidance mechanism (that part of you that wants to fee good), and  how the Universal laws have programed you to react.  Some people, The LISTENERS, THE EMPATHIC PEOPLE, override their natural tendencies to say “deal with it dude” and will  listen, but left alone this is will have bad results. 

You see when you listen to people’s negativity you are coming down to their vibrational level, and you need to refuel yourself with positivity just to get back to neutral. Too much of negativity will have the effect of “burn out” because it takes allot of energy to overcome the negativity, specially if you are not used to dealing with it, or if you are in a place of higher vibration.  So in actuality I was doing my friend  a disservice trying to have him listen to my dilemma.  If it was a problem solving session and I needed advice we both could have approached the subject from a different point of view, but I just wanted to vent. That is not productive as you read in my last post. 

My friend actually did me a favor reminding me that I am on my own.  I need to get out of my self-pity and deal with the situations I was faced with. Yes they were not ideal. But I would be stronger for it, and in the end I am sure everything will work out the way it is supposed to work out for my best interest. 

I hope this makes sense and I hope it helps you think twice the next time you want to dump on someone close to you.  Leave me comments on my Facebook posts, and Twitterfeeds, and let me know how you feel about this post.  Till next week, to your success.  

WHAT IS NOT HAPPINESS?

Good day and  I hope you are having a great week. Many challenges popped up this week for me. As I mentioned before I am heading to the Middle East this week, and any type of preparation you would do for a long trip is doubly complicated when you travel to some parts of the world where we just don’t have the infrastructure that most people are used to when they travel. 

Anyway as I was dealing with the stuff, and listening to my wife’s positive reassurance, I started to contemplate a phrase I heard in a Buddhism 101 seminar.  Nichirin Daishonin a 2^nd century monk in Japan who popularized the sect of Buddhism named after him said and I am paraphrasing, “happiness is NOT the absence of pain or challenges.  Happiness is being able to deal with pain and challenges and still choosing to be Happy”. 

Recently I gave my 9 and 6 years olds my old iPods filled with their favorite songs.  I started to think about how I used to listen to music on my Walkman and how we were so impressed with the automatic switch of the tape from side A to side B and then with the advent of the CD and  how we could easily skip to different songs.  I wonder how the tech generation would deal with having to find a song on a Cassette Tape? Maybe I am not giving you enough credit? Would you be able to handle forwarding or rewinding through the entire cassette to find your song? Or would it turn your life upside down.  You may think I am being silly, but the stuff I see people complain about, and yes at times, the stuff that I now complain about is really not much more trivial than that. 

As my wife likes to remind me, complaining will just attract the crap I am complaining about into my life over and over. What can be gained by complaining and wasting energy, instead of actually dealing with the issue? Yes there are those times when I just have to accept the situation for the time being, because there may not be any obvious solution. But even then, there is little benefit that comes from complaining. I used to justify that it would make me feel better to vent, but really it was not at all helpful. I would just get worked up even more. Complaining does not lead to happiness.  Working on the solution is a step towards the right direction but even this should not be criteria for happiness. 

Happiness is independent of what my situation is.  Happiness is being alive in this time, in the now.  There is nothing more to be said.  Stuff happens that bring joy or pain but that is all part of being alive and YES, IT IS ALL A PART OF BEING HAPPY.   From The Law of Attraction (LOA) view point, when you are happy no matter what you are attracting more opportunities to be happy no matter what. That is going to strengthen your resolve, and life will, by default, be much, much better. 

Let me know how you feel about this statement on my Facebook, and Twitter feed.  I hope this makes sense and makes you think this week.  As always, to your success.