YOU CAN NOT HAVE IT FOR "THEM"

Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This video blog is about the fact that you cannot want others to love you, or like you, or be in business with you. LAW OF ATTRACTION is not about making others do what you want. You can only control yourself and your emotions and that is ENOUGH.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ysdfLDH4iFk

A SIMPLE PLAN FOR INNER PEACE

Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This week I wanted to touch base with you about things that trouble you. Today we are going to reach a little deeper and by doing that my goal is to show you how you can achieve inner peace. It is a simple task, but as with most things it is by no means easy.

Let’s go into scrutiny of what it is that causes us worry? Something is happening on the other side of the world and I see it on the news and it produces anxiety for me. The baseball game went over by 3 hours and I am missing my UFC event and I am fuming.  The elected officials are doing this and that, and I don’t really agree with it, and now I am concerned about the future etc. Can you see the common factor in all these things? The answer is they are all events outside of me. These are things that are outside of me that are causing emotional vibrations in me.   Can you see now when I say it is a simple matter,  but it is not easy? The simple answer to inner peace is to be able to control ourselves and our feelings regardless of what is happening outside of us. 

The problem is that we have been conditioned to care about what other people think. We have been brought up to react to the outside world events. The question that needs to be answered is this, “is this worldly event really critical to my survival right now?” Was it critical to my survival to have been able to watch the UFC fight? Was the election of so and so something that threatens my life? In most cases the answers are a comical and decisive no. 

In the grand scheme of things we always have the option of being happy and being at peace. When we start to encounter incidences in our lives that start to push us off balance the key point is to recognize and filter these events. We need to come back internally and realize that we can only control what we can do, and everything else is not critical to our survival. 

When you look at this from the stand point of the Law of Attraction (LOA)  you can also see how in tune the Universe is. The concept that most of the time, most people are going about by default is that, we react to our external environment.  Unless we have been educated to know that we can control our reality, we rarely recognize our feelings as something of an indicator.  In fact, most of the time we dismiss our feelings and ignore them.  When things are good we are happy. When things are challenging we are unhappy. What an up and down rollercoaster ride.

Being in tune with our feelings, and knowing we are the only ones responsible for what is happening to us is empowering.  We have the ability to feel good regardless of what is happening around us. Simple principle but incredibly difficult in challenging times. The more you practice with this, the better you can become just like any skill.  It is a worthwhile skill to master. 

The practice with The Law of Attraction (LOA) has only one goal for us, and that is to be happy now.  Inner Peace makes us happy now as well, isn’t that just great? It is so cool that things just blend together and support each other. That is the way things should be. It is the way of the Universe. It is law and our birth right.

I hope this was helpful.  I welcome your comments on my Facebook and Twitter feed, as we can only learn from each other if there is open conversation.  Please click on the corresponding link and let me know what you think about this post.  If you think this is helpful to someone you know please feel free to pass the link to this blog to them. Until next week, to your success. 

YOU CONTROL THE ENERGY

Good day and I hope you are having a great week.  This week I have a short video for you with some visual aids in helping you realize that you in deed have the power.  I hope you enjoy it. Please make sure to comment on my Facebook Page and Twitter feed. Click on the blue links and post your opinions. Thanks, and to your Success.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wyumc5G0prQ

DON'T DROP THE SNOWBALL : KEY TO SETTING YOURSELF UP FOR SUCCESS

Good day and I hope you are having a great week. In this post I want to cover something that haunts even the best practitioners of success principles and The Law of Attraction.  Some people call it PROCRASTINATION, some call it FEAR, it does not matter what you call it. There are some subtleties that we should be aware of when we sit down,  visualize what we want,  set our goals, and if we are really good,  set a deadline.  We sometimes neglect the one key thing.  That one important thing we may not do is to take IMMEDIATE ACTION on those goals.  Think about it.  How many times have you set goals and said you will star tomorrow, or next month, or by the new year, or as soon as so and so happens?

Many times that hesitation between the excitement of creating the goal and the initiation of the plan to complete it creates the doubts and fear that challenge even the best of us.  When you let things sit, that initial high emotional vibration that you sent out to the Universe gets stagnated.   It is like rolling a snow ball down the hill. I started to create that initial snowball, but  I  never actually put it down and start rolling it so it becomes a boulder.  I  just left it in the snow and walked away.  Isn't it sad?

You can see from that analogy that the vibration that is sent out to the universe has initiated to create the opportunities for me to achieve your success. However, not taking action is signaling to the universe that I want more opportunities to NOT TAKE ACTION.  And the Universe will reply in kind.  More opportunities will come to procrastinate.  I will find excuses.  I will find justifications for my fears, and pretty soon the spark that initiated that goal will die, and my progress is doomed before it even gets started.

One of the key things that Napoleon Hill points out in his all-time best seller Think and Grow Rich  is that when you set plans to achieve your objective, start IMMEDIATELY TO TAKE action.  Many teachers like Jack Canfield, and Dr. Joe Vitale preached that you should take at least one step every day that takes you close to your goal, and that is great but,  you need to start immediately when you set that goal and get the ball rolling. 

You will be amazed how wonderful beginning of the journey feels.  The sense of accomplishment that you get for actually taking that first step towards your objective is amazing and that feeling and that vibration will in all likelihood carry you through to the next step.  So don’t forget to celebrate and reward yourself for starting immediately.  Having said that, be careful not to try to tackle the monster in one go.   Break down your goals into manageable steps so each step will not seem intimidating.  That way you can take steps, reward your success, get feedback and analyze your progress and if needed,  go ahead and change and correct your course. 

I hope this post was valuable to you. As always please feel free to share and comment on my Facebook page and Twitter feed. I always love to hear from you and we can all learn together from multiple experiences. Till next week, to your success.