Tuesday, September 30, 2014


Good day, and I hope you are having a great week. I get asked many times when talking about The Law of Attraction (LOA) why should I control my attitude towards things that pose challenges to me? When stuff hits the fan why should I look for the silver lining? I just feel like screaming? I want to let it out?
Well this week's post gives you the practical and the Law of Attraction reasons and answers to these questions.
I hope you enjoy this, and please make sure to comment on my FaceBook page as well as leave me a Tweet on my twitter feed.

Tuesday, September 23, 2014


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. Today I am putting a video blog to answer the question that comes up over and over again when ever I talk about The Law of Attraction (LOA) and the concepts of visualization.  I get asked all the time, how do I eliminate those negative thoughts that keep on coming up or I get caught up in?

Here is my thoughts on this topic. Please comment on this video at my Facebook page and Twitter feed. Enjoy, till next week to your success.

Tuesday, September 16, 2014


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This week I am using some teachings I learned from a course by Jeff Reinke in his classes on “Men’s Skills” and applying them to the Law of Attraction to discover certain things that hold us back from achieving success. When I refer to success it is not just a material wealth, but whatever that word means to you. The goal of this post is to give you more tools to be able to recognize any limiting believe or hidden resistances that are preventing you from achieving your full potential with the Law of Attraction or anything else.  Let’s begin.

Like it or not what we learn and are exposed to as children will affect us in our lives long after we have grown up, become professionals, have built businesses, become parents, and gone on with our lives. For many people, myself included, the red flags are so well hidden that we may not be aware of them.  These  red flags are perhaps cultural, or familial in nature. The way we were treated, as children, the way we saw our elders deal with challenges ARE ingrained in our subconscious. We can either ignore them, or understand them and learn from them as well as prevent them from hindering our growth. 

The most visible sign that you are limited in some way is when you react to something automatically. Let me say that again. You need to pay attention to any situation that brings out an automatic response from you.  Let me clarify this by an example.  Having been born in the middle east, I was familiar with different marriage rituals of the region. I had heard of cast systems, and arranged marriages, and social status etc.  Being educated and raised in the United States for most of my childhood, by parents who were also educated in the west, this was not an issue in my family. When in medical school, I met other students that were from the middle east.  Some were born in the States but their family ties to the region were very strong.  Strong family pressures on “who to marry” significantly affected their relationships with the opposite sex.  I am not making any judgments as to positive or negative effect, but seeing it as an outsider, and comparing it to my non-middle eastern friends, I could see major differences.  It does not even have to be a middle eastern tradition.  The way people who are raised in the South treat relationships is significantly different than someone raised in New York City or Los Angeles. 

Another example is when the emotion of anger suddenly erupts.  Rational individuals suddenly express theatrics that are uncontrollable, and completely out of character.  Have you ever lost control and become angry over something that in hindsight completely bypassed your rational mind? Jeff Reinke calls this Amygdala Hijack.  Without going too much into detail, sometimes we react to “triggers” as Jeff calls them, that evoke a response that completely by passes our conscious mind.  In a time of danger when our fight or flight response kicks in, this is a very useful mechanism, but in modern times it is usually a detriment.
The way to realize this is happening is to become aware of your emotions. There is rarely an incident that happens in a split second. The emotions are usually build up gradually but they are so under our radar, and so ingrained that we ignore them until the reaction is out of proportion to the stimulus.  The reason goes back to our childhood,  and that is where we can start the understanding and correction.

Jeff Reinke sates that if you find yourself out of control with one of these reactions, you need to work your way back to an incident in your childhood that evoked that emotions. It is an intense journey that can be done easily without a need for a therapist, but it does require a commitment and time.  You need to sit in a quiet place and reflect on why those emotions came about and took over?  Go back and see as far as you can when was the first time you felt those emotions and usually many of our issues are reduced to one or two underlying causes.  Many people’s anger, and frustrations are reduced to a time when they were treated with anger, or when they felt helpless and out of control, or it may be a situation when they felt like they had disrespected someone or were disrespected and anger was the response. 

With this background, I want to now go into how this effects your use of The Law of Attraction (LOA) and your success.  When you stretch your goals, and reach for something outside of your comfort zones there is usually a feeling deep in your gut and jumps up.  Do NOT ignore it.  That feeling comes from somewhere in your past. The more in tune you are with what that feeling is, the easier it will be to go back and see where you first encountered that feeling in your life.  Let us use the example of money as it is easily related too.  If you set a goal of making $20,000 per month and your gut suddenly and in a subtle way says “bull shit”, there is a point of resistance that you need to uncover and deal with.

Clearing methods like EFT, and Sedona method are great, but I believe that you need to get to the core of the matter and be aware that you have a resistance to completely replace it.  Notice I do not say eliminate it. You need to replace behavior that is not productive by one that is productive. When you start to go back you may have noticed times where you heard elders say things like rich people are mean. You may have had a bad experience with a wealthy person when you were a child and your subconscious related wealth with a bad experience.  Someone you admired or even revered may have said or taught you that money corrupts. You may have been exposed to movies like Wall Street, where the wealthy were villains, and that may have made a mark on your subconscious .  You see working this back you realize that it comes down to one thing. Money equals bad people.  You don’t want to be a bad person, so subconsciously you will sabotage any opportunity that will enable you to be what you may consider wealthy.  So you will place a glass ceiling on your income to a point where you are comfortable but are not what you see as being wealthy, therefore you are not out of alignment with your core value of being nice.  No amount of visualization, or affirmation will get you past this if you do not recognize and make conscious the point of resistance.
Recognition will start the PROCESS of healing and changing.  It is a PROCESS. You did not get here in one instance and the solution will not happen in one day either.  You need to recognize then that every time the subject of wealth comes up you have a hiccup.  You need to replace the feeling of “bull shit” with something positive. Read about philanthropists  that do good with their wealth.  Study great men in history who were wealthy. Change your attitude about wealth consciously over and over until it replaces that subconscious attitude that wealthy people are bad. The important thing is that now you recognize that feeling that comes up every time you set a goal.  You have brought it into the light so it has less of a chance of sneaking up on you without you realizing it.  It still may at times, but do not punish yourself. Recognize, and celebrate the fact that your recognized it. Continue to work on it.

I hope this helps you and allows you to progress even further in your success. Please leave me a comment on my Facebook page and Twitter feed. I would love to hear your ideas, successes, challenges, and comments.  Till next week, to your success. 

Tuesday, September 9, 2014


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. I saw a great post from Abraham Hicks and went to like and see comments. I was so surprised at the comments generated by such a great post, and I had to post a reply. No judgement, jut wishing for love. That comment is the bases of this week's blog post. Enjoy.

Tuesday, September 2, 2014


A very good day to you, I hope you are having a blast. I was reading The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent by Jerry and Esther Hicks, and at the same time listening to Ask and It  Is Given by the same authors in my car lately. There must have been something that I must have read and heard many times before, but this time it totally resonated with me. Maybe because this time I was in the receiving mood. Maybe because I am working on a project to benefit the masses.  For whatever reason it lead to this post.  I hope you will enjoy this. 

There may be issues with our world, our economy, our politicians, etc.  There may be green house, and toxins, and rain forest issues.  There is hunger and poverty and all that all around the world and all around us. BUT I BELIEVE THE WORLD IS GETTING BETTER EVERY DAY AND WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO. The reason why the world is only getting better and will continue to get better is very simple.  Every second of everyday millions of people are experiencing a difference  between their ideal self, and their present circumstances.  Those differences lead to desires being launched as Abraham-Hicks refer to it. 

From our study of The Law of Attraction we know that as soon as you ASK, it is immediately GIVEN.  The only hiccup is with the allowing.  When people are in a place of sadness, envy, anger, desperation, etc. they cannot allow the goodness that they are looking for or desiring.  But never the less all those desires are immediately coming towards them. By the mere fact that they occupy the same world as we do, all those good things are also coming towards us.  So for the students of The Law of Attraction, as you learn to allow, and as you learn to be in joy with yourself, you are not only receiving the good things that you want, but also receiving the good things that thousands of generations before you have asked for. This also applies to the future.

As you go about experiencing new journeys,  and having new wants, and desires, you are immediately bringing more and more good things towards you and the rest of the world.  There is no scarcity and there is no lack. This is the beauty of being able to learn to use the LOA, because the good things that you may not have imagined, are on their way to you because someone else has already imagined it.   You just need to enjoy it. Do you want proof? Here is few things I did not think of but I am taking advantage of:
                Electricity, car, phone, iPhone, iPad, computer, internet, calculator, medicine, yoga, jiu jitsu, instant ability to print in my home, instant ability to drink clean water in my home, ability to read thousands upon thousands of books, ability to watch movies, to even have movies, ability to be warm at night or cool during the day. You get the idea.
Be warned however, that the same thing applies to all the other non-joyous stuff.  The Law of Attraction does not discriminate. It is always fair and always the way it has always been;  CONSTANT. It WILL BRING TO YOU WHAT YOU GIVE YOUR ATTENTION TO with emotion.  Do you want to go around and look for more baby seals getting killed, or do you want to go around looking for wonderful children playing in clean, safe environments?  There is no judgment here.  I praise organizations that want to save wild life, and the environment. The passion they have is a very strong vibration.  I just choose to put my attention on things I want to have in my life more and more. I want to choose to pay attention to the things that bring more joy into my life.  I know what I give most of my attention to with emotions, attracts more of the same. The question is what do you want to have more in your life?

I hope this was helpful. I welcome your comments, criticism, rebuttal, etc. on my Facebook page and twitter.  With love and wish for your continued success. Till next week.