Thursday, December 21, 2017


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. Happy Holidays from my family to yours. I put together this video blog to show you a quick way to discern if you are using the Law of Attraction (loa) correctly to your advantage. Enjoy it, share it, and as always to your success.

Friday, November 3, 2017


Enjoy this video blog. Don't wish you had a immunity boost for the negative thoughts that come into your mind? Well this video shares some real actionable techniques.

Video blog immunity for the mind

Wednesday, October 25, 2017


Good day and I hope you are well.
I have just created a YouTube video blog on how your past experiences that you may not be thinking about could potentially be sabotaging your present success. I share very personal information in the hopes that you will learn from my mistakes and manifest the kind of life you deserve. Enjoy and share.
Video Blog of past blocking present success

Wednesday, September 27, 2017


Good day,
In this video I explain the biggest mistake we make when we try to use The Law of Attraction (loa) and how to make sure we can manifest what we want. I hope you enjoy it.

Sunday, July 16, 2017

What Do YOU do when everything is at ROCK BOTTOM?

This is a continuation video discussion on my live FB looking now from the point of view of the person experiencing loss. Enjoy

Tuesday, March 28, 2017

Good bye and The end of this blog... for now

Greetings and I hope you are having a great week. This week is my good bye to you. In 2010 I started this blog to help myself be positive. Over the years it developed into a Facebook Page, and a Twitter feed and I hope it helped some people in the course of it. Now it is time for me to leave it be...

I find myself more lost than ever recently. I am off centered and not so "loving".  The Law of attraction LOA is about love and in good conscious I cannot really preach what I am having the inability to do in my personal life. I just need to take some time and find out how to be happy again.  I need to "put some of the lessons, I teach into practice".  I need to find how to love again the genuine love that comes for all not just the people who are good to me or who I like.  I need to be "like the tree that gives shade to all not just the people who are good, and even to the person who is chopping it down..." as I heard in a parable.

I wish you all much love. I wish to be able to help you, but I feel the negative energy that is encompassing me will transfer to these words if I continue to "PRETEND".  Along the posts of these past 7 years you will find EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO MAKE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION (LOA) WORK FOR YOU.  It is my wish that these posts will find their way to you when and where you need it. I will leave this blog, the Facebook page and the twitter feed active, but I am cancelling all my workshops, personal coaching, and teachings until further notice.

I love you, I wish you the best, and request your prayers, and positive energy...

It has been an honor and pleasure to talk to you from the pages of this blog.  It has been a treasure meeting some of you, and talking with more on the phone, and on Q&A sessions.  You all have touched my life in so many positive ways.

I bid you farewell and I am confident that ALL WILL BE WELL.

Tuesday, March 14, 2017


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. Sometimes we just need to slow down and just be. The Law of Attraction (LOA) is a powerful, precise, and non-judgmental force of the Universe. We control this force. We can manipulate this force. Or we can be ruled and manipulated by it.

The LOA does not take into account your secondary motives. It is precise, or as Forest Gump may have said “… it is what it does”.  So when you are going into overdrive, and everything is spinning out of control, you are not doing anything to help yourself. You will just attract more of the chaos and commotion. Sometimes that is good and makes you take action, at other times it is very destructive. Learn to differentiate the two and take a step back.

This week, for a day, or two or seven just let things happen and don’t make an impulse decision. Watch the situation and sleep on the decision and see how things turn out.  Let the Universe protect you without interfering.  You will be surprised.

That’s it for this week. The message is simple. There is no need to muddy the waters with jabber. If you have any questions leave me comments on my Facebook page or Tweet me on my twitter feed. Till next week, to your success. 

Tuesday, March 7, 2017


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. The Law of Attraction (LOA) is a powerful force for those individuals who are learning to use it, but what you may not know is that as you and I  go about using this force we are not only doing ourselves a service, but also helping the entire world. How is that you may ask? Well that is the topic of this week’s blog post.

The LOA works on vibrations as you well know if you have been reading this blog or information like it.   Vibrations of thought, and emotions may not be as visible as waves in the ocean, or ripples in a pond but they are just as real.  We are still learning how our thoughts manifest our reality. Even though this Universal law is as old as time, just like many of human achievements, we have to learn to work with it.  Gravity, lift and drag were also Universal laws, but it has been less than a century that humans have taken flight. As we grow and learn more and more about how this works, more and more valuable information allows us to understand the fact that as with anything LOA, the good only gets better.

The fact of the matter is that when you send out a vibration through your thought and even more so though your emotions, those vibrations have lasting ripple effect.  As you concentrate on the positive, you not only get back your positivity in manifestation of attracting more opportunity to be positive but that positive vibration is sent out through the Universe for all of humanity to share.  That is the reason why small groups of people meditating  for peace, have a positive impact in cities with population of millions. The vibrations have exponential growth as they move through the ether.  This means when you are sending out positive vibrations, you’re helping all humanity and also more importantly, you have to be aware of your negativity because that is also passed on through the ether.

Your vibrations expand, just like the ripples of a pebble in a pond expands.  They will continue to move through the ether long after you send out your vibration. This means your good vibes come back stronger to you, as well as being available for those who are open and on the same level to receiving it. Keep on being positive. Realize that you are going to get stronger positivity the longer you are positive, and the same also applies to your negativity.  Realize that negativity is all around you, therefore you need to actively feel yourself positivity.  Realize that you will be helping everyone in the world by being positive and you are hurting everyone in the world by being negative. 

I hope this makes sense to you. Feel free to share it, and ask questions on my Facebook, and Twitter feed and I will be happy to elaborate on it.  As always to your success, till next week. 

Tuesday, February 28, 2017


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This week I was hurt, by the fact that a close friend of mine seemed to not want to hear me out.  I was dealing with allot of challenges in my life and could have really used the listening ear, but it became very clear, really fast that I was on my own. Then I thought about it from The Law of Attraction (LOA) point of view and it all made sense.

Let me break it down for you.  You see, we are all on our own. It is not a reflection on our relationships and it is certainly not personal.  It is absolutely normal and if you see the contrary, someone is trying to go against the laws of nature and eventually that will back fire. What I mean by all this? It is something like this.  When we feel like we are overwhelmed by challenges, the social creatures that we are, we want to share the pain. You don’t have to be a LOA guru to not want to hear the crap.  It is completely opposite of what your guidance mechanism (that part of you that wants to fee good), and  how the Universal laws have programed you to react.  Some people, The LISTENERS, THE EMPATHIC PEOPLE, override their natural tendencies to say “deal with it dude” and will  listen, but left alone this is will have bad results. 

You see when you listen to people’s negativity you are coming down to their vibrational level, and you need to refuel yourself with positivity just to get back to neutral. Too much of negativity will have the effect of “burn out” because it takes allot of energy to overcome the negativity, specially if you are not used to dealing with it, or if you are in a place of higher vibration.  So in actuality I was doing my friend  a disservice trying to have him listen to my dilemma.  If it was a problem solving session and I needed advice we both could have approached the subject from a different point of view, but I just wanted to vent. That is not productive as you read in my last post. 

My friend actually did me a favor reminding me that I am on my own.  I need to get out of my self-pity and deal with the situations I was faced with. Yes they were not ideal. But I would be stronger for it, and in the end I am sure everything will work out the way it is supposed to work out for my best interest. 

I hope this makes sense and I hope it helps you think twice the next time you want to dump on someone close to you.  Leave me comments on my Facebook posts, and Twitterfeeds, and let me know how you feel about this post.  Till next week, to your success.  

Tuesday, February 21, 2017


Good day and  I hope you are having a great week. Many challenges popped up this week for me. As I mentioned before I am heading to the Middle East this week, and any type of preparation you would do for a long trip is doubly complicated when you travel to some parts of the world where we just don’t have the infrastructure that most people are used to when they travel. 

Anyway as I was dealing with the stuff, and listening to my wife’s positive reassurance, I started to contemplate a phrase I heard in a Buddhism 101 seminar.  Nichirin Daishonin a 2nd century monk in Japan who popularized the sect of Buddhism named after him said and I am paraphrasing, “happiness is NOT the absence of pain or challenges.  Happiness is being able to deal with pain and challenges and still choosing to be Happy”. 

Recently I gave my 9 and 6 years olds my old iPods filled with their favorite songs.  I started to think about how I used to listen to music on my Walkman and how we were so impressed with the automatic switch of the tape from side A to side B and then with the advent of the CD and  how we could easily skip to different songs.  I wonder how the tech generation would deal with having to find a song on a Cassette Tape? Maybe I am not giving you enough credit? Would you be able to handle forwarding or rewinding through the entire cassette to find your song? Or would it turn your life upside down.  You may think I am being silly, but the stuff I see people complain about, and yes at times, the stuff that I now complain about is really not much more trivial than that. 

As my wife likes to remind me, complaining will just attract the crap I am complaining about into my life over and over. What can be gained by complaining and wasting energy, instead of actually dealing with the issue? Yes there are those times when I just have to accept the situation for the time being, because there may not be any obvious solution. But even then, there is little benefit that comes from complaining. I used to justify that it would make me feel better to vent, but really it was not at all helpful. I would just get worked up even more. Complaining does not lead to happiness.  Working on the solution is a step towards the right direction but even this should not be criteria for happiness. 

Happiness is independent of what my situation is.  Happiness is being alive in this time, in the now.  There is nothing more to be said.  Stuff happens that bring joy or pain but that is all part of being alive and YES, IT IS ALL A PART OF BEING HAPPY.   From The Law of Attraction (LOA) view point, when you are happy no matter what you are attracting more opportunities to be happy no matter what. That is going to strengthen your resolve, and life will, by default, be much, much better. 

Let me know how you feel about this statement on my Facebook, and Twitter feed.  I hope this makes sense and makes you think this week.  As always, to your success. 

Tuesday, February 14, 2017


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This week I am diving into BELIEF, FAITH, whatever you call it, as it pertains to The Law of Attraction (LOA).  LOA is unlike most disciplines when it comes to the belief.  It’s critical that you believe that it will work for you, however, that comes with a solid caveat that if you don’t get results, you don’t really have to follow it. That is if you can honestly and truly say to yourself “I gave it my all and it failed”.

This is very rare. By definition FAITH refers to belief in that which cannot be seen. To my knowledge most religions, with perhaps the exception of Buddhism, take this definition of faith to heart.  Good thing then, that The Law of Attraction has nothing to do with religion.  LOA is an experimental discipline. Much like science, you get what you put into it in exact, tangible evidence.  That is why it is critical that you start with small things that you do not have emotional baggage attached to. Because the belief in the fact that you CAN manifest what you want, does very much hinge on you actually believing that you can manifest it.  It is not “I get,  then I believe”, it is believe then get. It seems like a catch 22 doesn’t it.  I can see you saying “A.J. which is it then? Do I believe blindly, or do I believe based on evidence?”  That is a fair and great question.

It is a little of both. Much like Nichirin Buddhism, LOA works on success to reinforce your belief.  So you work on visualizing and getting in tune with something small, like a parking space, or a free cup of coffee, and when that happens over and over, then you start to see the evidence which in turn strengthens your belief, which then allows you to take a leap to something bigger.  At that point, however your comfort zone has expanded, so that something bigger may be finding some small change on your way to work, or in your jean’s pocket after laundry.  Whereas before the parking space, you may have been uncertain that you could manifest some change, now that you have become comfortable with the parking space, you can see yourself manifesting some change.

You have to realize that very few people manifest a million dollars, or the relationship of their dreams right off the bat, by using the LOA.  You may think so because by the time you hear their stories, they have gone through and proven to THEMSELVES that they can manifest at that level, due to the time and practice and yes, BABY STEPS, that they have taken. But we as observers think it happened over night.  It is like seeing a great performer on a show like the old American Idol, or The Voice and you say “cool, how lucky they are to get a break”.  What we don’t see is the years, and years, of practice to perfect their art and be ready for the opportunity. As Oprah sais “luck  is where opportunity meets preparation”.  We rarely see the preparation of success. We only think, “oh if I just had the break, or if I was there at the right time, or …” If you are prepared, it does not matter where the opportunity comes, you will cease it, if you are not prepared, you will not even realize there was an opportunity”. 

I hope this makes sense to you and I urge you to challenge yourselves on building your belief in LOA, by practicing, and preparing yourself with small baby steps.  Leave me a comment or question on my Facebook page, or Twitter feed, and as always to your success.  

Tuesday, February 7, 2017


Good morning and I hope you are having a great week. This week I have a very simple post for you. It is the most important lesson you will ever learn in using The Law of Attraction (LOA) IN YOUR LIFE.

I want you to do this now, and for the next 7 days. Every morning be thankful for what you have no matter what. Every time you feel like getting upset, envious, angry, hurt, taken advantage of,… whatever, give thanks that you are alive and for everything that is happening because you should KNOW THAT IT IS HAPPENING FOR YOUR BEST INTEREST. 

Then give someone you would not usually smile at a genuine smile… Don’t make this freaky though J

Let me know how this week works out for you on my Facebookpage and on my Twitter feed. Till next week, to your success.

Tuesday, January 31, 2017


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. For the benefit of those who will read this post in years to come, I want to set the stage by giving the background that inspired the following video blog.

On January 28th, 2017, a Saturday, the United States of America’s President Donald J. Trump after being in office for one week, signed an executive order banning the entry of all citizens of 7 Middles Eastern, and African countries.  Since many of the countries were mostly Muslim countries, the social media quickly used the hashtag #muslimban to mark the occasion.    The execution of this order was so sudden that many permanent residents  of the United States, returning home from overseas were detained and questioned. Some for over 29 hours. Some students and families were turned away and returned to their native countries in the airports. 

This action stirred protest and injunctions by many state courts, and tensions were high, and emotions were even higher across the country and across the world. Today is Tuesday, 2 days after that executive order and this is my thoughts on the subject…

After viewing the blog video if you have questions or comments please feel free to post them on my Facebook by clicking this link, or on Twitter by clicking here.  Until next week, to your success. See the video here.

Tuesday, January 24, 2017


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This week I am going to approach the subject of resistance and the fact that sometimes what we visualize does not materialize, from a different path.  This path was revealed to me last night, as though the Source realized I was going to make it the subject of this week’s blog. Perhaps someone out there is wondering what they are doing wrong? Why is it that everything they are doing is not manifesting that which they are visualizing? You may have cleared everything, heard that you have to allow, and are doing your best to allow, and nothing comes. What is going on? Is this thing we call The Law of Attraction (LOA) broken? You may feel sometimes that it feels like it is broken for you? You may feel you are “not worthy”.  You may be ready to call it quits? Well here is an interpretation you may not have considered, and I hope it will keep you going. 

It does not matter where my inspiration came from because that is a subject all to itself, and does not really relate. All I can say is that LOA brings what we need to know , the wisdom, the manifestations, exactly when we need and are ready for them.  The subject of WORTHINESS is not something you need to ever consider. You are a part of the energy that has given rise to this magnificent world, and all the Universe that this world is a part of, so to think you are not worthy would be insulting that Source that created and brought you here.  Put that idea out of your mind.  You are WORTHY, and this is not just blowing Sunshine up your you know what. IT IS A FACT.  YOU ARE LOVED, YOUR WORTHY AND THERE IS NO LACK. 

There is however,  a quirk when it comes to the Universal laws.  Sometimes we are an instrument of their teaching.  You know if I was alone on this world, my manifestations would be instantaneous and there would be no resistance.  We share this world with others and they also have desires.  This is not about scarcity, this is about UNIVERSAL COMRADERY.  We are here to aid and assist each other in realizing that we are a part of the Source, and sometimes that involves being an example.  How you may be asking?

When we feel bad, or something has gone wrong, it is our natural tenancy to think THIS IS ONLY HAPPENING TO ME.  We think “I am the only person who is feeling this way”.  Worse we may start to think “what is wrong with me?”.  I want to give you another way to look at this.  The LAW OF ATTRACTION (LOA)  is using your challenges as a lesson for those who will see you, to understand that THEY TOO CAN OVERCOME THEIR CHALLENGES.  You are being a shining example, that if you can overcome this, so can the next person.  You are literally attracting the positivity for those who are open to receive it. You are an inspiration.    

So the next time you have a hiccup, see it as a challenge to persevere through for the benefit of not only yourself but those vibrational companions that are looking to you to show them that they too can succeed.  How cool is this way of looking at things? This is the way the law works. It is not BS. 

I hope this makes sense and you can share this with someone who can benefit from it.  As always I am here to answer your questions.  Leave me comments or question on my Facebook and twitter feeds.  I rarely get questions, so I am always ready to answer. You are not bugging me, and your question may actually help not only you, or me, but many thousands of readers across the globe.  Thank you and I wish you success, till next week. 

Tuesday, January 17, 2017


Good day and I hope you are having a wonderful week. This week, I was reminded of a folk tail about a shaman who’s teacher wanted to show  him  that perception is everything, so he send him to a teacher who made him feel like an earthworm. In that reality, the shaman did not feel like a small, blind, slimy animal, but he felt like a powerful bulldozer who pushed massive boulders of rocks many times his size aside as he make his way through cavernous tunnels in the underground.

You see, it is only us humans that have inferiority complex or a sense of “entitlement” .  All other species on this planet do what they have been created by the Source, to the best of their abilities.  There is no second guessing and punishing themselves over mistakes.  There is no self-ridicule.  There is no “scarcity”. There is no expectation of getting before giving.  Yes, as this is a blog about The Law of Attraction (LOA), I am going to link this to the subject.  Yesterday was Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. birthday holiday in the United States.  One of the famous quotes from Dr. King is very similar to the sayings from the Buddha thousands of years before.  Dr. King said “even if you are a street sweeper, do your job so well that they will say he was the best street sweeper that ever lived”.  Our rewards do not come from where most people think.  Some people falsely believe that we can manipulate the system, or kiss A$#$ and get ahead, and yet rewards do not just come from your supervisor, or even your job. We are all governed by the Universal laws of cause and effect.  It is what it is.  The LOA dictates that what you send out you will attract.  If you are sending out deceit and dishonesty that is what will be attracted to your life. If you are sending out your best, then the best will be attracted to you in the right time and place.  It is law. 

I will keep this short and sweet as there is really no need to stress this simple concept any further. Simple lessons are the best.  I hope this makes sense to you. If it does not, make sure to comment on my Facebook thread for this blog, or tweet me on my twitter feed and I will be happy to discuss it with you. Till next week, to your success.  

Tuesday, January 3, 2017


Good day and I hope you are well. I know this post will piss some people off but hey that is the joy of living in a free country. If you are going to be upset at least be objective to read the whole thing and not  just the title.

Every religion that I have done a "cursory" study of indicates there is ONE source, the Almighty, God, Supreme Architect.  There are many other "ways of life" that preach the same thing. Even if you are an "atheist",  science tells you that something started this whole thing. What is curious is that they all either say or imply the we, humans, are either a part of or like that source. No issues with this right? 

Here is where things get screwy though, when the concept becomes a "Religion" there seems to come with it footnotes, or fine print, that insert the proverbial BUT. That is when  something to the tune of "do it our way or you won't get the prize" kicks in. When you have statements like that there is room for conflict. Remember the book Animal Farm ?  Remember how the rules changed from, now I am paraphrasing, "all animals are created equal", to "but some are more equal than others"? 

Maybe it is my lack of understanding of the language, but when everyone is created equal and, by the same ONE creator there cannot be footnotes. You are either equal or you are not. If everyone is equal then I ask humbly and with upmost respect why do we need "different religions"?  If we are not created equal and ONE does not mean one, we either have misunderstanding of math or we just want to fight. When one set of people tell another set they are wrong, big fights (wars) are ensued and of course "my way is the right way" leaves little room for dialogue.

This is not a blog blog on religion.  The Law of Attraction (LOA) is not a religion. It can be proved by religion and science. It is universal and it states that at least humans all are a part of the same whole which has always been and has never been created. Curiously I noticed the same view is held by Nichirin Buddhism which again depending on who you ask is either a religion or a way of life. Because this is such a taboo subject no attention is paid to it from a constructive view. I ask though aren't we as human race tiered of killing each other over perceived differences?  Isn't it time for us to wake up and be enlightened?

We can sequence the human genome and see the wavelength of different colors even the invisible, why can't we apply that to our phenotypic world?  I am going to leave this up for 2 weeks because I really want you to tell me how can we strive for peace and happiness when we are determined to differentiate the most fundamental similarity as a difference? Come on and take this serious. One person can make a change. Think about this. Talk and share this with each other. Am I the only person or a minority in this world who can see how awesome we HUMANS can make our world right now and not a 100 years from now?  This is the time for truth. We are on the verge of the most amazing time in human history and things are just getting better. Don't buy the crap your local or national media feeds you. Life is F@$#%ing good.

Spread this on FacebookTweet the $@&# out of it. Argue with me, clap for me, call me clueless, call me names but get emotionally involved please. Don't let this blog just pass your notice with an indifferent glance. Your future and that of your children depends on it. I love all of you in advance no matter what you call me. And I wish you all an amazing week and success for life.