Tuesday, March 31, 2015


Good day and I hope you are having a great day and a great week. Today I am going to go over another tinny little mistake we tend to make that slows down the effectiveness of The Law of Attraction (LOA), and our success.

I put this on a quick video blog and I hope you will enjoy it. If it is unclear or you have any questions please click on my Facebook or Twitter link and leave me a comment. With love, and to your success till next week. 

Tuesday, March 24, 2015


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This week again, I have another video blog for your enjoyment. This one is about the mental work, and not the physical work that is needed for us to make sure the Law of Attraction (LOA) works effectively the way we want it for us. Many times we believe that if we are not working hard enough, we don't deserve the best life has to offer... well check out this video and see how to work with this perfect law.

I hope you will find it valuable. If there is any questions or comments you want to make please click on the Facebook link and/ or my Twitter feed and I will address them. Till next week, to your success.  

Tuesday, March 17, 2015


Good day and I hope your week is going well. This week again I am using martial arts to relate to success in business, finance, love, etc. and utilizing the relationship between The Law of Attraction (LOA) and success in what ever you do.

This post came about as I was at my jiu jitsu class and the experience of frustration that I had in training really translated well into life and so here it is the video. Enjoy and if there is any questions you need clarifications on please do not hesitate to click on the Facebook link or Twitter link and I will be more than happy to answer them for you. Till next week, to your success.

Tuesday, March 10, 2015


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This blog started  5 years ago, with me putting down my frustrations, and consciously trying to change my vibrations from negative to positive.  I’ve continued to do that over the years in the hopes that the challenges that I have had,  are common to many people, and the lessons I am learning from different teachers and The Law of Attraction (LOA), that have made a positive impact in my life and have helped me, will help my readers and others.  To that point, I wanted to discuss a particular quirk that I have personally, again in the hopes that it will help those of you that may have the same personality as I do, or who make the same challenging choices as I have at times. I am very analytical. I like to have things very organized, and plan things for events. I don’t like to be surprised when it comes to important matters.  As part of this kind of habit and attitude I find myself exploring the” what ifs” of what can go wrong?  Even after studying the Law of Attraction and practicing it in my life for over 5 years, I tend to justify, that I am looking out for my best interest by planning for the worst and hoping for best.  Those who know me well, have heard me quote the warrior saying “the more you sweat in practice, the less you bleed in battle” many times.

 All of that is great, and have a place in our finance, business, and personal life. The thing to remember however is, when we are going through preparing for the worst, what kind of feelings are we sending out.  Remember the Law of Attraction (LOA) is not just our thoughts. It is powered and amplified by the emotions that we put behind those thoughts. Let me give you a small example to clarify this.  Let’s say I am planning a trip from San Diego to Long Beach.  A small 100 miles trip. Not a big deal if you have taken this trip routinely.  Let’s say it is my first time,  and I am over analyzing the situation and I want to plan for what if I get a  flat tire?  Simple right? Now if my thoughts and emotions are “oh my God what if I get a flat tire?  I’m going to have to pull from the fast lane to the other side of the 5 lane freeway. I drive a van. Where is the spare located. Is there a screw on the inside? Do I have to crawl underneath the van? Oh my God, is my AAA card active and do I need to call them?” All of these thoughts are coming from a feeling of desperation, fear, negativity.  You may or may not be able to get the perspective from these written words here, but if you heard me speak them you would definitely hear the pain.

Now the same thing could be handled from  a more powerful and in control vibration.  I am taking that same trip from San Diego to Long Beach.  I want to be prepared if there is a flat tire.  I know that the road is a wonderful freeway, with the bulk of the trip on a  5 lanes paved and modern interstate. On either side of the freeway there are wide emergency lanes very conveniently located to pull to the side. I know my van is very new, so the chances of my tire having a flat are very slim.  I know there is an instruction manual in the glove compartment, so even if I don’t know how to reach the spare, it will take me no more than 5-10 minutes to find the instructions in the manual (remember I am analytical) which is very well written.  Do you see the confidence and more positive feeling behind the second way of dealing with issues versus the first method? 

I hope this becomes evident, because many of us specially as parents, husbands, significant others, and those who have to look out for not just  ourselves, but also family and friends tend to imagine the worst.  We tend to get worked up over things that in most cases will never happen.  We need to reach for our emotions and let that be a cue to us.  When we start to feel  nervous, and negative about topics, we need to change that. Because negativity will only bring about opportunities for us to feel more negative.  We don’t want those incidences of “what if”, to suddenly become our reality. 

I hope this makes sense and helps. Please comment on my Facebook page and twitter feed about anything  that is unclear and I will reply to you. As always, until next week, to your success.  

Tuesday, March 3, 2015


Good day and I hope you are having a great week. This week I am going to explore a question I get asked very frequently when I talk about The Law of Attraction (LOA),  and how simple it is to make it work for you.  I get asked why can’t I just visualize and have my desires materialize for me,  if The Law of Attraction (LOA) is so easy to work with? This is a very good question.

Here is the little missing  ingredients  about the LOA, that you may not have realized, or it may not have been conveyed properly to you in previous teachings.  Although it should be really obvious. If you are studying The LOA from its basics tenants it should really be obvious, that the bottom line is this: you don’t necessarily get what you think, but you get what you prepare for. When I say, this is supposed to be obvious, it is because in one way or another you have heard this before. It may not have clicked at the time, and this is the reason why I am putting  a whole post dedicated to this topic. 

Remember when The Secret came out, and everyone was studying The Law of Attraction, and we were introduced to it, one of the examples was that you can’t be thinking of negativity, or words of negations.  You can’t say “I don’t want bills”, because what you are doing is concentrating on bills. You cannot say “I don’t want hardship”, because you are concentrating on hardship.  Another words, you are PREPARING FOR bills, and hardships.  Here is the rub, if you say “I want a million dollars” and yet you are sitting on your butt, you are PREPARING for more opportunities to sit on your butt.  The million dollars, is not usually the result you want.  People desire money for reasons that are far beyond the paper money.  They want to do something with the money. They want freedom, want to go on a vacation, want to buy a Porsche, want to build a house of their dreams.  Do you see that  you are not really preparing to go and buy the house of your dreams if you are sitting on the couch.  You are not preparing to buy the Porsche if you are sitting on the couch.  You are not preparing to fall in love if you are sitting on the couch.  That is why you have to take action towards it. 

Remember one of the examples in The Secret was of a person looking for a lover, but she was sleeping in the middle of the bed. She wasn't preparing to have someone in her life.  You need to keep doing your visualization. You need to make sure you have emotional attachments to what you want.  Those emotional vibrations and those emotional attachments should be coming from places that feel good and not from places that feel bad. And also start preparing.  Remember we were talking last week about faith, and believing that you already have what you have.  What Dr. Vitale calls “Nevalizing” your desires. Start preparing for what you want. If you want a new Porsche, then start cleaning the garage and make space for the Porsche. Go to the dealership and sit in it, and test drive it. If you want the new house, go and look at houses. Walk through open houses and see your dream houses on the weekends. Prepare for it, and you are getting much closer to achieving it.

I hope this makes sense and helps you. Please leave me comments on my Facebook page and Twitter feed if you have any questions, or comments. Until next week, to your success.