Good day and I hope you are doing well this week. Today I
wanted to talk about some deep underlying thoughts that we need to bring to the
surface to be able to enjoy the use of The Law of Attraction (LOA), and the
process of reaching success when it comes to dealing with people who hurt us.
I was listening to a Christian radio station in my rental
car as I was leaving the airport, when something caught my attention. Right before the music set began there was a
teaser referring to the fact that the people that hurt you are sent by
God. It was a nice teaser for the next
segment and I wanted to see where that discussion was going to lead. I also started to think about the implication
of this in my own life. Could this really
effect my life? As always, I thought
about it from the LOA point of view. The law states that there is no scarcity,
and lack. In an ideal situation, if we
were not conditioned with some resistance beliefs there wouldn’t be anyone who
hurt us. But we share this universe with other beings, and we are also shaped
by our interactions with other people.
Many of us have a belief of not
being worthy. If you are honest with
yourself, you can probably attest to the fact that there are times where you
feel not worthy, or feel like you have to do something to receive
benefits. Like you need challenges in
your life.
All of these underlying resistance beliefs manifest
themselves in your life. No matter how
much visualization, and prosperity feeling you send out, if you have this belief
that you are not worthy, the opportunities manifest so you have to work “hard
enough” until you feel that you are worthy of achieving your goal. You have to
deal with people that hurt you. You have deal with challenges. Getting back to the Spiritual conversation on
the radio, the punch line was that God sends people into your life that hurt
you to see if you can see the silver lining in it. This can also be related to
the practice of the LOA. It is actually
a positive way of looking at it. Whether you are spiritual, or not is irrelevant
in regards to this topic. Think of it as
practice and exercise for getting stronger in this endeavor. Every time somebody hurts you, or you are
having any kind of challenges, it becomes a very good habit and a positive
outlook to try to say “ok, so now I am in the gym working out my Law of
Attraction Muscle”. “What is the silver
lining in this? How can I benefit from this?” Of course if you are spiritual
then things are much easier.
If you cannot reach anything that feels better at the time,
just know that you are now exercising your LOA muscle, and the mere fact that
you are looking for that better feeling is strengthening your ability to deal
with negativity, and turn it into something positive. You are sending replacing vibration. You are
working your way to the positive. That
is incredibly commendable. Remember we can’t stop negativity. We can only replace it with something positive,
because the Universe does not recognize words, or thoughts of
negation. You cannot fight negativity,
because that is the only thing you will start attracting to you. You have to replace it with a positive thought
and productive ways of dealing with challenges.
This practice sounds simple and it is a great tool. It will be difficult because when you are
hurt, or are facing challenges, the last think you reach for is positive
emotions. Here is where the difference lies in people who manifest their life
by intent, and those who rely on reflex emotional reactions and go about by
default feeling good when things are good, and feeling like crap when stuff
hits the fan. Which one do you want to
be? Challenge yourself to start seeing the silver lining. Do it for 30 days. See how it will change your life, not just
your day to day activity. It will CHANGE
YOUR LIFE.
I hope you enjoyed this post. As always if you have some
experience with this topic, or you have challenges, or comments on this topic,
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interacting with you the readers, and I think we all learn allot from each
other. Till next week, here is to your
success.
