WHY IS IT SO EASY TO HATE?

Good day and I hope you are having a wonderful week.  Have you noticed it is so much easier to get angry than it is to love? Seemingly little things trip us and we seem to get angry a lot more than we enjoy the finer moments of life.  Why do you suppose that is?  Today I want to explore that topic and how it relates to The Law of Attraction (LOA). 

If you really think about it, your capacity to love or to hate relies on, and is dependent on how much practice you give to each topic.  If you are someone that gets angry easily it is because you have practiced that emotion more than you have practiced love. It has nothing to do with your innate self.  It is not an identity. It is just something you do.  Because of the amount of attention you give to it, by the LOA you are going to attract more and more of it the more you get angry.  The good thing is that this is not a catch 22. Because of the mere fact that you control your thoughts, you can start to apply the LOA to attract more wonderful things into your life.  How do you do this? You have to do this consciously because subconsciously the world will throw things at you every second, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to get angry, upset, and feel sad.  Good news does not make the news.  Feel free to Tweet that. 

So what you have to do is you have to actually go about looking for things to make you happy.  Looking for things that make your heart move to joy.  Looking for things to love.  Start putting pictures of little children playing, beautiful scenery, flowers, puppies or kittens all over your phone, computer and your Facebook page. Get in the habit of looking for good things in every place.  Walking around, driving in traffic, or when surfing the internet start looking for things that will make you happy. This way you are actually practicing the vibration of being happy and by the LOA you will attract more and more opportunities to be happy, attract love, and be joyful. 

It is a practice and it is a skill set just like any other ability.  The more you give your attention to good things, the more good things will come about to take your attention and hence you will experience more joy than anger or hate.  Start practicing this and shut the door on negative reactions and negative news that surrounds you on a daily bases.  You have a choice of what you listen to.  You have the choice of what to watch.  Start putting those choices into good use. 

Successful people do the things that the general public and the average person does not.  It is easy to just go around and discuss what is on the news.  Specially right now.  It is so easy to get into the “locker room” discussion around the water cooler about what is wrong with this and what is wrong with that.  Everybody is doing it.  Well that is not really accurate is it? The people who are successful, who are joyous, and are manifesting the lives they actually want are absolutely NOT doing this.  They go about and take control of their thoughts. They go about and place themselves in situation that feels good. It is so simple.  You always have the choice of how you react to something even though you may not be able to control what happens.  You can only do what you can do.  100 % personal responsibility.  Control the person you can control.  Control the situations that you can control. When you cannot, you have 3 choices.  1) Remove yourself from the situation, 2) change the situation, and 3) or accept it and move on.  There is nothing to be gained by getting upset and angry as Eckhart Tolle states in his book The Power of Now. 

So take charge of your destiny.  Take actions that bring smiles to your face as much as you can so when challenges arise, you are already on a high vibration.  I hope this makes sense. Please feel free to comment on my Facebook Page if you have any questions or feedback, and do not forget to follow me on Twitter.  Until next week, to you success.