Good day and I hope you are having a great week. Eckhart Tolle in his book The Power of Now
states that if we were in Heaven, we would say after a while, this is
great, but. This is something that makes
us who we are. We are constantly looking
for the next desire, and that is a great thing.
It is not a bad thing. This is a
bountiful Universe and we should be looking for our hearts content. What does this have to with brokenness?
There is a Japanese art called Kintsugi or Kintsukuroi that
is the art of repairing broken ceramic and china by filling and sticking the
pieces together with a resin which has gold dust in it. The moral of the story being that what is
broken is actually more beautiful than the original. As we dare to go after our desires instead of
sitting back, we risk being broken. We
risk, to gain. We go beyond what is comfortable to gain new successes. We push our boundaries, to experience the new
opportunities. This risk will come with
stumbles, setbacks, and what many may
call “failure”. In reality though has
there been anything that we have achieved without failing and trying again?
Imagine if you had stopped trying to walk because you fell down the first time
you tried. Ridiculous right?
There is a great beauty and I would go as far as saying
power to someone who perseveres in the face of setbacks and prevails. Many coaches will say “ you are not beaten
until you quit”. Motivational speakers are fond of saying “you are the only one
who can stop you”. These are not just
tweetable quotes, although feel free to tweet them.
Do not hide behind your mistakes. Do not run from failure.
Why do we let our failures and stumbles define our actions? It is called
Shame. Shame is different from
guilt. Guilt is an action that you did
that was wrong. Shame is an identity; you believe there is something wrong with
you. There could not be anything further
from the truth. You recall Thomas Edison
tried and failed 10,000 times to perfect the light bulb. Do you think he was ashamed after each
try. Oh sure people were readily
available to ridicule him, but imagine if he had stopped trying to invent his
inventions.
Remember people are always ready to bring you down. It is
not always from a place of malice, it can actually be from a place of
love. Loved ones fear for your
wounds. When you experience brokenness,
it hurts those who love you as well and they want to protect you from
experiencing scars. Or it maybe they have experienced some brokenness and have
not persevered to overcome and have not reached their goals. Since this is a point of pain for them they
“think” they can save you from experiencing the same results. Success is not something we can want for
others. You have to want it. If you want
it enough you will achieve it. If your
desires change then you can move on. In either case the brokenness or scars
have taught you a valuable lesson that more than likely you will use and
benefit from in the future.
I hope this makes sense. Please feel free to comment and ask
questions on my Facebook Page and do not forget to tweet me and follow me onTweeter. Until next week, to your
continued success.