WHAT'S THE LITTLE SECRET???

 BE HAPPY NOW
Greetings, I hope you are having a great day. Today's post is a simple one, however the underlying principle in this post is critical to making your visualizations, and your work with The Law of Attraction successful.  When I first heard about the concepts of visualization, I worked on it all the time. I also stressed over it allot of times. Those of you who have been reading this blog for a while or have worked with the law of attraction will Immediately see where I am going with this. By definition I was attracting more and more situations to feel stressed over. That is the core of the law. It is not what I say, it is what I feel. The statement is a focusing mechanism for the feelings but the important activator is the feeling. For example if I am saying  "every day in every way I am better and better" but I am feeling like crap, and do not work on feeling better while I say the affirmation, guess what I am attracting? More opportunities to feel like crap is the right answer.

Recently while reading one of Dr. Joe Vitale's books I realized that when he said "the short cut is to feel,good now" he is absolutely right. You really do not need any study on the subject if you can really feel happy now all the time. That is the key to everything. When I first moved to the north county of San Diego and was living in Escondido in a studio apartment with a school debt of over $100,000, I was essentially there. I was living very simply. My career was taking most of my time and I loved what I was doing at the time.  I had great friends. My family was loving and supportive. I was happy at the time. Because of that, more and more opportunities came to make me happy, and I discovered the book "Think and Grow Rich" and later was introduced to the concept of this universal law, The Law of Attraction.

I started to deliberately work on manifesting thing and as a novice at first things went really easily. I was able to pay off my student loans, got married to the love of my life, started to learn and then teach the concepts and create programs that would help people learn the same stuff I was introduced to. Then I wrote a book and that is when I got caught up in the little things and started to stress over the little stuff. I stopped being happy now.  I started to neglect my little ones with the thought that I was doing this for their good. Yeah we have heard that before right? That is when things plateaued. I have noticed every time my income, my relationships, my health or anything else has stopped improving is because I stopped being happy now and started to focus on the "if only I had that I would be happy" feeling.

Here again the students of LOA can see when I am putting my focus on " if only ..." More and more opportunities come to me to have me focus on that.  I got distracted with multiple projects which only stressed me more and took my attention away from the truly important things. The Law of Attraction is all about achieving balance. When you are happy now you are balanced and it is an attitude that you can adopt no matter where you are.  It may more difficult if you are facing challenges but no one said this is going to be easy. It is a SIMPLE concept but it is not easy.  It takes the most difficult skill that humans can work on. That is self discipline in controlling what they think about and how they feel. There is nothing more difficult than to decide you will good no matter what your outside world throws at you.  It is like a test. When the world sees that no matter what you feel good it will just give up and let you have what ever you desire.

I hope this makes sense to you.  It is a skill well worth perfecting.  It is worth all the ti e it will require you to get good at it because once you have figured it out you will have mastered The Law of Attraction and you will have what ever your heart desires.  I hope you enjoyed this post. As always share this with anyone who may benefit from it. Comment on this and other post on my Facebook page and follow me on Twitter.