Tuesday, June 11, 2013
FB REQUEST: I AM HERE, BUT WANT TO BE THERE…
Good day and I hope you are having a great week. Today is very special to me because one of my mentors, Life Coach, Teacher, Healer Lorane Gordon in reply to my request for some ideas posted this questions she hears from her clients, so we decided to tackle it together. “Many of my coaching clients come to me with the following. Being here, yet always wanting to be there. No matter what you're doing feeling dissatisfied like you should be doing something else. VERY stressful!”
Let’s talk about The Law of Attraction and how this thinking applies to our reality based on universal laws. It is important to realize that just because we are not aware of or do not “believe” In universal laws, it does not mean they do not apply to us. In my interview with Lorane on Blog Talk Radio I mentioned the example of not believing that gravity works. That does not mean that if I jump off the roof I am not going to fall. I will fall and most likely break bones. Ignorance of universal laws does not excuse our personal responsibility.
Now let’s examine what kind of vibration we are sending out when we have the feeling of “wanting to be there…” By definition when we are not satisfied with present and want something, we are coming from scarcity. Can you see that? It is very important that we take baby steps through this mine field. When we concentrate on debt we get more debt, when we concentrate on wanting we get more opportunities to want. Are you following the logic with me? When we feel prosperous we get more opportunities to experience… you guessed it; prosperity. When we express dissatisfaction, we are asking to have more circumstances to make us dissatisfied because the Law will give us what we concentrate on not what we say. Words of negation do not apply to universal law of Attraction. Thinking “I should be doing something else” only brings about the reality of always feeling like we are not doing what we want. That is what we asked for.
How do you correct this? It requires a change in thought patterns and associated behaviors. The universe DOES NOT recognize words or thoughts of negation. You cannot be thinking “I want” and expect to “receive”. That is why all teachers of The Law of Attraction, Goal Setting, and Success Principles emphasize the fact that you have to get into the feeling of having, visualizing, creating affirmations, and goals that express the fact that you have ALREADY achieved the ideal. Do not “want”. The key is to feel like “I already have”. Is this confusing? It was to me when I started in this process. How can I feel like I have when I don’t? Remember I told you we need to change our thoughts and behaviors? Here is where we start. You have been misled into believing that to have something; you have to take action to, get something, so you can have the feeling of having it. Another words “do, have, be”. That is completely a backward loop, but because you have believed in it, that is the way your reality works. The correct way to think is you feel the way you want, then the opportunities come to you to do things that you need to do to finally, have what you wanted. The new logic is “be, do, have”.
Here is how: The techniques of having all you could ever want is summarized in one word; GRATITUDE. Be happy NOW and be thankful about what you have now. Walk through the logic with me. When you are happy now with what you have, you are sending out the vibration to attract more and more opportunities to be grateful. When you set goals and visualize, feel with as many senses as you can, how good it feels to have achieved them now. Make a detailed reality of having it in your mind and concentrate on it with joy. Do not come from envy or lack. If the visualization does not feel good, STOP. Take a break. Exercise, get ice cream. You want to do your visualizations when you are feeling good. This is not the time to try to FIX what is wrong. This is the time to enjoy the success and accomplishments. A great way to start the process is to sit and write WHY you want what it is that you want. This has the added benefit of making you be specific and focus your thoughts. Each point you write is the reason to be happy. How does it feel to have it? How will you look having it? What will it sound like enjoying the experience? What praise is given to you now that you have achieved it? What does having those admiration make you feel like inside? If you are smiling right now, you have grasped the concept.
It is not a race. It is a journey. Be specific and live your dreams in your mind to the point that you can make your body express physiological reactions as though you have it. Is your heart racing? Are you feeling the wind in your hair? Are you getting goose bumps? This when you will start deliberately manifesting.