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Tuesday, November 30, 2010

FUNNY THING ABOUT THE LAW OF ATTRACTION

Good day all,
This is a short but to the point post. Similar to the post I made entitled "You are right, and I am wrong"( you are right, and I am wrong ) this is a post of realization.
Here is the key point of the law of attraction: Similar to what Henry Ford said,  weather you believe it or not you are right. That is the reality of the Law of Attraction. By the definition of it what ever you decide to believe is your reality. That is why I do not argue or force this concept that I know for a fact is critical to any success. It is frustrating to see and know that people, specially those you love, can be happier and live an easier, more abundant life, but it is not our job or in our control to make people believe. Only THE person has control over it.
So when people say "that is a bunch of hawg wash" then there is no point about arguing because that will be their reality. For "THEM" the law of attraction will not work because they are focusing on it not working, and that is what will be attracted to them.
Remember what ever we focus on with emotions and passion will send out an energy vibration that will bring more and more of that energy so we keep on feeling the way we are feeling. If you want to feel good then start feeling good and concentrate on small steps that makes you feel good. Jerry and Esther Hicks have a process called the "RAMPAGE OF APPRECIATION" in which you look at your surroundings and find things that genuinely will make you feel appreciative, and happy. Small things. Like what a great weather we are having right now. If you are honest with yourself that thought will bring about other things you can feel appreciative for and more and more things that you can feel good about will manifest to keep you feeling that way. Soon you will start to be overwhelmed with joy and appreciation and isn't that a wonderful thing to be able to control by design?

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Thursday, November 25, 2010

Good news about the END OF DAYS

Good morning everyone. Happy Thanks Giving.
I was watching the history channel the other day totally engulfed in the life of Issac Newton. This program concentrated on how he had calculated the end of the world to happen in 2064. Coincidentally I was also listening to a program by Jerry and Esther Hicks (Abraham Hicks tapes) about the Law of Attraction in Action. While I was listening to that program something clicked in my brain that I want to share with you in this blog and see if we can generate some discussion around it. I do not intend to disrespect any religion or belief in this post. It is just a forum for discussion.
Esther Hicks said that we are "the leading edge of universe, by virtue of the fact that we send out vibrations of our wants". She said that the universe is expanding by this virtue. I also have heard that in the beginning, the universe expanded very rapidly. The Big Bang theory stated in a fraction of a second the universe expanded and then it slowed down in its expansion. Now however, scientists calculated that the universe is expanding again at an increasing rate.
So thinking about the Law of Attraction and the way Abraham (through Esther Hicks) teaches, it is conceivable that as we come to understand and control our thoughts, we keep on contributing to the expansion of the universe. When we keep those thoughts positive we keep on sending vibration of good and the universe has to respond by matching that vibration in its expansion. So as our universe expands with better and better vibrations the disastrous conclusions about the END OF DAYS become a mute point.
Having said that I am also spiritual and part of me likes to believe that at some point we will have to be judged for our deeds. But I do not look at it as a all ending chaos and destruction. I choose to look at it as a changing of energy, rather than destruction of all things. This way of thinking keeps my religious beliefs in line with my scientific background and there is no conflict. Science tells us that energy can not be created nor destroyed. It can only change forms.
It is a much nicer and comforting thought to view life as a form of this energy and death as a changing of that form into another. Death is not the end by any means it is just a change in the vibration.
I hope this makes those people who concentrate on the media propaganda surrounding the 2012 and other so called apocalyptic predictions a little more hopeful. Instead of concentrating on everything coming to an destructive end, focus your thoughts on the good things you want in your life and let the universe expand by your thoughts and raise your vibration to match what you want. That is success.
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Tuesday, November 23, 2010

WHY YOU SHOULD STOP NEGATIVE SELF TALK?

Good day every one,
I hope you are well. In this post I want to focus on the fact that most people are more critical of themselves than any one else. In the past this trait may have been looked at as a productive character, however, the more we understand how our subconscious works, the more dangerous this trait appears.
Most negative self-talk happens in the times of high emotional charge. May be when we make a mistake, or when some one has taken advantage of us, or when some thing has not gone the way we wanted it to go and we loose all rational thought and start bashing ourselves to gain some semblance of control. As though by hurting our own feelings, it will make things better. Well I am here to tell you that if that is the pattern you follow you are doing much more damage than just hurting your feelings. You are actually sending negative and self defeating thoughts right through the guardian of your subconscious through to the core of your beliefs and that is where they will create resistance and block all the good work you are doing by working with the Law of Attraction.
In my e-book Road Map to life I have a chapter on how to set and achieve your goals. There are 6 steps and they are designed to get the positive picture of what you want to have into your subconscious, because only then will your subconscious start looking for opportunities and doors seem to open to help you achieve what you want. When you engage in negative self-talk you are essentially setting up a goal to fail. Let me say that again, with negative self-talk or any other self criticism you are setting up a goal to fail. What's even worse is that you are putting more emotions and effort into this than you are in attaining your actual positive goals. Do you see how important it is to monitor your thoughts and stop engaging in self bashing?
Most people at one time or another have made mistakes and blamed themselves, but it is now your turn to realize that it does no good, and in fact it is destructive to your success if you continue to beat yourself up when ever you make a mistake. It is like being a child and having some one repeatedly tell you that you're worthless. You can easily see the impact that can have on your future, and by treating yourself bad when things are not going the way you wanted them to, you are actually doing much more harm than if you were put down when you were a child. Because the talk is coming directly from you and it is taken as fact without resistance.
The next time you find yourself wanting to beat yourself up remember this post and take a deep breath and see how you can learn from the mistake instead, and put your energy into setting positive goals and acheiving them .
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Friday, November 19, 2010

TO SUCCEED YOU NEED TO MONITOR YOUR THOUGHTS

Good day all,
 I hope you are well and the week is going great. Today I want to shed some light on consciously monitoring your thoughts and what role that action plays in your ultimate success or failure. To get the best out of this post you need to be familiar with The Law of Attraction so if you have not done so please go back to the earlier posts on law of attraction. Here is  the one I wrote about the basics: Basics of the law of attraction
From there read the follow up posts until you are comfortable with how the Law of Attraction works and then come back to this post.
Once you are familiar with the LOA you can understand how important it is to make sure you minimize the amount of junk going into your subconscious. Your conscious mind is the gate keeper of what goes through to your subconscious mind.  When you are aware of the thoughts that you are faced with every day, your rational mind will be the filter of what to send to your subconscious and what to reject. Realize that when you are in a state of fear, anxiety, depression, etc your subconscious is left unguarded. Any thing you come in contact with like music, television, chatter during the time of emotional excitement will pass through to your subconscious. The subconscious mind does not judge or evaluate, it just accepts. Your subconscious thoughts are what gets to the vibrational level to be manifested in your reality. That is how the law of attraction works. You have to get what you consciously want in your life transferred to your subconscious mind. According to Napoleon Hill in Think and Grow Rich, the only way to influence the subconscious mind in a planned, conscious way is through "Auto Suggestion".  That is through repetition of statements that you want to transfer to your subconscious mind.  That is how you alter and change the deep routed thoughts and false beliefs that are holding you back. But you have to train yourself to look out for negativity when you are most vulnerable. You are most vulnerable when you have the emotions of fear, anxiety, and depression and if you are not focusing on what stimuli in your surrounding is being broadcast to your subconscious you will keep on building resistance that will keep you from success and in most cases you will not even know what they are. As an example if you are sad and angry at the amount of money you have, that negativity will get through to your subconscious and it will attract more of like reality which is more lack of money.
It takes discipline and practice to become an observer in times of emotional stress, but that is the price of fast track to success. Because negativity is all around us and these emotions (Fear, anger, despair, depression)  in themselves carry negative energy it is critical that you consciously prevent them from reaching your subconscious so they do not attract more of the negative energy to you.
The good news is that any negative resistance you have can be cleared and replaced by using techniques like the Emotional Freedom Technique and the Sedona Method, as well as the use of Auto Suggestion to replace the negative beliefs with new positive ones. Once you are the master of your mind and your thoughts you WILL BE THE MASTER OF YOUR REALITY. It is a great place to be and well worth the effort. When you think about it the price you pay in discipline and practice is nothing compared to having complete control over your reality. Now it is your time. Take action and let me know if you have any comments or questions. Good luck and best wishes.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

A GREAT WAY TO HELP YOU MAKE DESCISIONS

Greetings all,
I just got an e-mail from John Carlton that he has a new post up on his blog about a simple easy way of making any decision you are having a hard time figuring out. In its essence it seems too easy and simple but don't knock it until you try it.
Check it out here: www.John-Carlton.com

Enjoy.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010

WHAT IS THE HARDEST WOOD?

Good day all,
Today I want to come back to a principal that is hard to accept when it is happening to you. That is when we face adversity. When things are going not so great for us it is hard to see the silver lining. No matter what we have heard or read, it is hard to see how a bad situation is going to benefit us. So now that you are reading this and I am hoping you are in a neutral frame of mind I want to put into your mind this fact so you can rely on it when the time of need arises.
Napoleon Hill's famous quote in Think and Grow Rich said "With every adversity there comes the seeds of equivalent or greater success".  I must admit, there have been times when I have tried to see where the seeds could possibly be, but at the time I could find no answer. The key to this is patience and open mind with Positive Mental Attitude. W. Clement Stone added that last part to Napoleon Hill's quote saying "Every adversity brings with it the seeds of equivalent or greater success with positive mental attitude".
Let me use a practical example from nature. My wife's grandfather lived on a farm. He used to make the wheels of his wagon from the strongest trees that grew on their farm. Do you want to take a guess where the strongest wood came from? When my wife's family were clearing the land for farming they left few trees out in the open. These trees were constantly facing the 'ADVERSITY' of the weather. They were beaten and pushed and pulled in the wind, rain, snow, and the sun day in and day out through the years. These trees that were out in the open were the ones that my wife's grandfather use to make the wheels of the wagons because they were the strongest. The trees in the forest that were sheltered by the masses of the trees were not strong enough to provide the wood needed for the wheels of the wagon. Adversity makes you stronger as long as you do not give up and quit.
I also remember one of my mentors telling me that when we stop making mistakes we are dead. Our life is full of making and learning from our mistakes. That is how we grow and learn. I am sure we all have heard that Thomas Edison tired AND failed over ten thousand (10,000) times before he perfected the electric light bulb. The authors of Chicken Soup for the Soul, Mark Victor Hansen and Jack Canfiled had tried to publish their books thousands of times and had received thousands of rejections. This in the face of the fact that they had signatures from thousands of people promising to buy the book when it was published. Jack Canfield said in one of his telephone coaching sessions that it took him 5 years before he made his million dollar check. Now the Chicken Soup for the Soul series is a best seller many times over. Any thing that Jack Canfield or Mark Victor Hansen now put their name to becomes an automatic best seller. I would say 5 years is a small price to pay for the countless riches that follow not giving up when adversity rears its head.
So take this to heart, the next time you are faced with situations when things are not going your way. Look and be open for opportunities which will bring you greater success.
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Thursday, November 11, 2010

OTHER SOURCES OF INSPIRATION

Good day all,
 A few posts pack I shared a link for Dr. Joe Vitale's free e-book give away. Dr. Vitale also has a nice blog that he is putting together his next book's info about principals of Abundance. Many of the things we discuss here are also in his blog but he is such an awsome writer and one of my favorite sources of expertese when it comes to the law of attraction that I wanted to make sure you are all aware of his blog:

http://blog.mrfire.com

enjoy.

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

My Scientific Proof of The Law of Attraction Part 2:

Good day all,
So we have discussed how observation of energy made it act like matter instead of wave. The Law of Attraction says that what ever we focus on with emotions and energy will materialize in our reality as long as there is no resistance blocking it. All around us the world is energy. Energy cannot be created or destroyed. It just changes form. Here is where I had to take a leap of faith based on the information I had gathered and I could be completely off, but it is working for me so I wanted to share how I see this working in my life. Einstein mathematically proved some thing like 11 different dimensions. There may be more or less, but definitely more than 3.  We live in only 3. So where is the rest? I am going to take it as fact that Einstein was correct because I really can not understand the math behind it but I would guess some one by now would have proven him wrong if he was not correct.
Putting all this together seems like science fiction but remember the act of going into space was at some point science fiction. So dream with me for a second: I pictured our universe as a series of different events and waves of possibility existing at the same time. That means every one, and every thing has infinite possibilities of manifesting into particles (reality) at any particular time. It is like being on different time lines where each path would give different results, but all possibilities being available at the same time in a fluid wave form of energy going about until a focus is achieved to change the wave into particle and that becomes the reality at that moment. Here is the IMPORTANT part, the focus can happen by default as most of us go through life, or it can be by purposeful application of correct thinking and emotionalizing those thoughts to the point where they reach the subconscious. I believe that only thoughts through the subconscious can affect the waves of possibility and turn them into reality.
For example if I am going from point A to point B and there are 3 traffic lights between the two points, when I start there are infinite combination of events that can happen as far as those lights are concerned. My emotionalized focus on all 3 of them being green, will force the waves of energy of that moment to take the form of that possibility, namely being green. By the same token when I am worried, or stressed (very strong emotions by the way), these emotions cause focus to be towards a reality that will continue perpetuating those emotions of worry and stress and the greatest reality to do that is to have all 3 lights be red and delay me in getting to my destination. I have used this analogy in my earlier posts in explaining how the law of attraction works. Isn’t it funny that whenever you are late for an appointment, everything seems to keep you from getting there on time? Well that is my explanation of it.
So you being able to control your reactions to events in your life, trains your mind to consider other possibilities, and if you do this long enough with emotion and passion then I believe you can create realities from the infinite possibilities of energy that surrounds you.
Do not mistake this to mean that you can sit on the couch and visualize and things will magically appear. There is no such reality, because you do not tell the energy how to take the form of particles. To try to dictate the how is a form of resistance and you are limiting your possibilities if you try to do that. The transformation of waves of energy to your designed reality will take form in steps and those steps come to you in the form of opportunities and circumstances that will require you to take action and follow those steps further focusing the wave of energy to the point of reality you want. Isn’t this the greatest thing? The difference between humans and other forms of life is that most living things go about by instinct. A seed has no other focus than to grow into a tree. It does not have the ability to think I am going to be a rock. There is a nice order to things. But I truly believe in the next decade or so an evolution of human kind will start to take place as more and more people will understand the universal laws like the law of attraction and as they try to use it to achieve success in their lives, health, and professional careers there will be more and more studies done on how and why it works. For now I like my explanation because it is working for me. I hope it helps you get around the mysticism of The Law of Attraction and start using it to achieve your goals and success in every thing you do.
Please leave me some comments and engage in a discussion with each other on this subject.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

My Scientific proof for the Law of Attraction part 1:

Good day
This is a two-part post for the more scientific and fact based audience of my blog. I am for the most part of the scientifically minded community. When I was first introduced the Law of Attraction, I was skeptical to say the least. When people and book suggested that I could use the Law of Attraction to achieve success and that principles of success frequently use the Law of Attraction, I was curious. So with a little digging and an open mind I went in search of trying to convince myself that the parking spots I was getting and the magical way that thing started to work out for the better were in fact because of me changing my thought patterns and not by coincidence. After all when the 1st premise of using a new tool is that what ever is happening in your life right now is because YOU have brought into your life, I needed to understand exactly why things were not going the way I wanted them hitherto, and by extrapolation how in the world was I to blame.
I set this up in two parts because the first part will be fact based and scientific. The 2nd part of the blog will build on the faith that the 1st part should create. That is how my brain works. I am analytical and a scientific method is the easiest way for me to understand abstract. Unless I can logically justify some thing, it is very difficult for me to have blind faith in it (Theology excluding). Since The Law of Attraction has not been the focus of mainstream discussion, even though it has been around since the beginning of time, there is not too much “main Stream” proof for it. So the purpose of this section is to build on scientific knowledge so you can take the next step if that is what is holding you back in creating success and abundance in your life through the use of The Law of Attraction.
I am going to take you back to your high school physics. And here you thought when am I going to use this stuff ever again right? We know that things are not solid. They are made up of molecules held together but ionic and covalent bonds. Molecules in themselves then are made up of electrons and protons. Well electrons are easily explained as energy; energy waves that fluctuate between different levels of excitement. There is a famous experiment called the Double Slit Experiment that was designed to once and for all determine if electrons were particles, or waves. And that is when everything changed. When I studied this in class the power and extrapolation of it in real life and application to success did not even cross my mind. Take a look at this YouTube Video that easily explains it: 
youtube video of double slit experiment 
So the mere act of observing caused the electrons to act as matter and not wave. That is where things get clear for me. Focus on energy (electron) causes it to go from waves to particles. Deductive reasoning then tells me that if our world and every thing in it are energy, my focus on it will bring it into the form of particles. This much I could understand and logic out for myself. The next part is where I have to take this knowledge and apply it to principles of the Law of Attraction and that is the topic of part two. Please feel free to leave me a comment on what you think. I encourage discussion of this topic here.